Collarspace.com

Writing this profile has taken me quite some time to figure what I wanted to say and convince myself that this is what I want. So here goes.... Firstly I need to say that I am a slave. That means that right now I am not "your slave". Although I am respectful to Dominant persons I do not need to put up with people who feel the God given right to be disrespectful in their communication with me, particularly in the first intance. Secondly (i will put this in bold so it is clear) I am bisexual but have NO INTEREST AT ALL in single men. My preference on here is to find a Domme owner but I am open to a genuine couple. By genuine I mean a m/f couple who live as a couple rather than simply playing as a couple. If you are a couple please be prepared to prove it. So, on to who I am and what I want to find. I am 28 and was first introduced to BDSM about 8 years ago by a female friend. What began as a bit of fooling around over wine one night took me to a headspace that was particularly yummy. For two years after that She became my Domme and constantly expanded my experiences and limits until we reached a point where I wanted more than She. Since that time I have played with various people at various levels. Some mild and some at the absolute extremes and through that identified that it is the extremes I not only want but need. I will not pretend to be "no limits" as I do have some clear limits.
  1. I will not have children. I am on long term contraception and intend remaining so.
  2. No scat play.
  3. I am fit and proud of my body. I am happy for it to be marked, tattooed, pierced and used and abused in any way an owner sees fit but I will NOT consent to being made to gain weight, grow fat or however else you wish to term it. For what it is worth I do not currently have any tattoos or piercings so I am a blank slate if that is your thing or unmarked if you prefer me that way.
Other than the above I have no limits I can think of. In saying that my job right now is to find an owner I can trust to take me to the extremes without causing irreversible harm. If I make the wrong choice then it is on my head. I accept that an Owner will make the decisions on every aspect of my life and those decisions may be things I adore or things I do not. I can live with that. Below are just a few of the things I have previously tried.
2/3/2013 3:51:36 PM

Bombarded with mail, mostly from single males who cannot read. The delete button works well.

 

I apologise to anyone awaiting a response, I am prioritising my replies as best I can.