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timiscurious

I'm the caregiver for Mom and a Photographer.

My primary Goal here, at this wonderful site, is to allow God to bring friends into my life who desire real unfiltered friendships based on a willingness to accept and give unconditional love. Most importantly, I’m wanting to eventually connect with a group of close, open minded friends who might eventually like to do some traveling around in RV Campers together. Friends who have the capacity to share life experiences with each other in a real and uninhibited fashion. That means that I'm not looking for a relationship, right now, but several real friendships that can blossom into fertile ground for growing unconditional love, compassion and wonderful memories. Now, after that serious note, if you want to know more about me, here are some of details

If I could describe myself in a few words they would be easygoing yet adventurous and honest yet often too honest for most because my view of life is so different than the main stream in some ways.

I find a great deal of happiness for me comes from viewing my photographs and videos of life’s precious moments captured along the way, I guess that’s why I really enjoy my work as a photographer. I also find great joy indulging my extremely open mind in thoughtful discussions concerning timeless and relevant topics, but I don’t get me started on bargain shopping and travel either. If you can’t tell yet, I’m not much different from most people, in that, I'm a bit of a walking contradiction, so don’t take anything I say or write too seriously because I often find myself playing the devils advocate in some discussions. Well if there is something I do take seriously, it’s my believe that we are here to, whenever possible, appreciate the places and, MOST IMPORTANTLY, the people we encounter along our life’s mysterious journey.

I would also love to find some good friends for cuddles and spankings when I need that too. I am a very touch oriented person and I think touch, in friendship and most other relationships, is an extremely underestimated aspect of human contentment and healthy social interaction. Our general lack of contentment, as a society, with ourselves and others may be a direct result of being undernourished in our natural desire to have more social, physical and nurturing contact in our lives. I have just recently started learned that there are others who share this way of thinking after attending a couple of adult workshops that teach about how simply cuddling with others can be a wonderful thing to do without it having to be sexual.

I have always enjoyed, pampering and being pampered, as well as spanking and being spanked (lol), even without a sexual element.

I'm really not looking for an intimate encounter even though my pictures and gender might suggest that's all I have on my mind. Don't get me wrong, I love sex, but I do know that there is much more to intimacy than the normal extremly sexy acts. Softly touching the face, lightly kissing the back of the neck are just as much fun at times as pounding that special place and slapping that rear end.

I’ve always loved the water. In the warm months I like to go to natural springs (cold creeks), waterfalls, water parks, the lake and the beach. In certain locations, I have been known to skinny dip, there is no way to feel any closer to nature. When it's cold I like to go to any number of favorite places in Florida and a resort campground on Lake Guntersville where they have an indoor pool and Jacuzzi. For exceptional nighttime fun, I enjoy going out dancing, watching dancers and exploying new horizens with a friend or two.

Most of the time in live quite simply. I spend time enjoying my family, the water, work, one or two night road trips. I really enjoy doing these kind of things with my friends too.

In summary, I am a well-rounded person with diverse interests, and I have an easy-going personality. I can be rather silly, outgoing and a little mischievous, but I also have a fairly deep side and am naturally very tender. I'm a good listener, loyal and I value having honest caring relationships with my friends. And I do consider Jesus Christ my guiding light although I don't carry all the baggage and taboos usually associated with the word "Christian".

I suppose I should add this on a more serious note, for those who want to know what I am looking for as far as a relationship is concerned, I don’t like to confuse attachment with love. That’s why I am interested in friendship and not dating. Dating seems to be more about an unrealistic grasping for attachment. Friendships seem to be much more free of things like disappointment, conflict, jealousy and other problems.

I wish you the foundation of balance, the vision of peace and many visits from your spirit of Joy.

If you like what you see and hear message me sometime and let's see if we can be real friends who have the capacity to share unconditional love for a long time.