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Dominant Couple, 41
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About TIHHOH
This Profile was created when I could not login to my main profile.
TakeninHandFS
The profile is back up. You can contact me there or here I will be alerted to both.
NO MALES
TIH-HOH-DD
The root of the idea of a Taken in Hand relationship is that the female will submit to the male in matters of everyday life. To what extent and which areas this covers varies from couple to couple, from a general avoidance of conflict by letting the male partner “get his way” to almost complete submission to the preferences of the man in matters such as clothing, friendships with others, styling of hair and many other things. It is quite common in TIH relationships for the woman to generally curtail her social life significantly so as to devote more time to the relationship. Unlike BDSM relationships TIH relationships are strictly “real life” rather than consisting of negotiated scenes. Whilst many BDSM activities take place mostly within the bedroom or the “Scene” (parties, clubs etc.) TIH relationships place a great deal of emphasis on everyday “vanilla” submission to the authority of the male as “Head of Household” (HoH) in a committed and long term relationship. Generally the male partner is expected to be the final decision-maker in most matters, and the female is expected to submit to him. This is generally regarded as being for the ultimate benefit of the relationship in reducing conflict and fostering closeness and trust. In some ways TIH could be and often is regarded as a very old-fashioned marriage, and many conventional marriages do fit unknowingly into the TIH dynamic.
Discipline is a fairly major aspect of TIH relationships and is used by the man on the woman to either punish a transgression (flagrant disobedience, arguing etc.) or as a means to end an unending dispute. The discipline rendered may be verbal scolding or loss of privileges, but is most often physical (usually a spanking). In this context it is intended to be UN-erotic and not desired (though it is consensual)
Simple man that likes simple things in life.Some say I'm to much of a smart ass.
maybe/maybe not.It will depend on the person and how they see others.
I do not play. So do not ask. If you are married then move on.If you are married why are you here.
You know what I seek...One and only one.
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It matters not if you have experience serving a Dom male.
As a matter of fact I think it might be better if you do not. Since retraining and clearing of the bad and wrong training that has been used on you takes way to much time.
Labels seldom describe what one truly is.
sub/slave. Maybe a variation of the two.
Taken In Hand-Head of Household-Domestic Discipline. Are not labels. |
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It is easy to take off your clothes and have sex people do it all the time.
But,opening up your soul to someone. Letting them into your spirit,thoughts,fears,future,hopes and dreams...
That is being naked. |
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