TightEbonyDomina

A wise sub once told me a true sub has no kinks. It is the domme who has the kinks. It is the subs responsibility to conform into what the domme wants and to do the things the domme wants him to do.

I think about this as I often receive emails from sub listing all if their fetishes, telling me what they want and have no notion of who I am nor what I want.

The thing that attracts me most is a sub who is intelligent, about his business, has goals, and knows how to achieve goals. A sub who wants to really know me for me not just my kinks is key. If you are attached please don't bother. I am not into sharing.

I'm convinced that this lifestyle is but a fantasy!

BWC CONTEST

Do you think you are a well hung white man? Are you in the NJ/NYC area? If so, you should enter the BWC Contest. Message me for additional details.

UPDATE!  PLEASE READ

I am up to my eyeballs with subs and I cannot spread myself any thinner.  I can only be friends at this point.  Thank you for your consideration and good luck to you on your search.

all my thoughts
flow from and back to
You
my sweet baby

You are the substance
of every vibration
every resonance
in the mind field
that is me,
which is simply
a "cover" for
~You~

Kindly continue to
seduce me back
toward home.
the only secure Place
found in the very
midst of all places
all locales;
that Moment which is
the tiniest component of
Time!

Is there a trace of you...?

I received the following mail.  I think i's a wonderful convo starter.  As a sub which one of the items on the list is an absolute deal breaker?

Please, this slave cannot live without the privilege to be used, abused, in pain, humiliated, and maybe even blackmailed to be forced to perform more tasks for the amusement of a sadistic Woman, and as he is alone and really bored tonight, he has created a list of tasks and with Your permission please Miss, he would be so honored and happy, if by Your kindness, You would like to help him to choose his next task please, i beg You divine Goddess.

Please, his tasks are to:
1 – Take a walk outside his apartment naked (Living in a building with 6 floors and an elevator)
2 - Drink all his next piss
3 - write the words of Your choice You on his body and perform a task on a site like Omegle.com or Cam4
4 - Fuck his ass with his 9 inches dildo, using Tabasco as lube and suck it afterward (no matter how dirty it is).
5 - masturbate using Icy Hot as lube
6 - be naked and masturbate without cumming in front of an open window.
7 - Put and leave 5 minutes a cotton swab covered with Icy Hot in his urethra.
8 - take a small enema and drink the water afterward
9 - send his tasks to 2 men and if they answer, do whatever they say
10 - fuck his ass 50 times in the hall in front of the neighbor front door
11 - eat a spoon of his next shit
12 - hit his balls 25 times with a stick
13 - keep a dildo or a plug in his ass for as long as You wish
14 - work his ass with his new 12.5 inches black dildo
15 - using his penis pump, he has to pump his balls inside it until he can't pump anymore
16 - no cumming for at least another 48 hours
17 - keep his cock and balls tied really tight for one hour
18 - he is forbidden to use the bathroom until allowed by You 

Please, he knows that is his not worthy of Your generous time but he begs You, he will be so happy to receive an answer from You, and once received, this slut will do his task how and when ordered by You divine Goddess.
Please, he begs You and he thanks You to have taken of Your precious time to read this slave. Infinitely thank You, thank You so much for all divine Goddess.

Thanks to "Spanky" for giving me the inspiration and the help to write this one:  Please don't jack my shit!

Oh spanky! Oh spanky!  Where for art thou spanky?  My hands are powdered.... legs fresh from leg presses.... all I need is that bare ass across my lap.

Yesterday I decided to communicate with Dr VP exclusively--- no interference from any one else.  These vibes are feeling right!!!!

So the new Rick Ro$$ albumn is fire!!!!!  I listened to it several times while I got dress to go out on Saturday night.  I truly believe Track #14-- Diced Pineapples is about me!  What is your favorite thing to do with diced pineapples?  I know... it's a loaded question.  But watch your mouth when you are talking to me.  I am boss!!!  LOL

I feel the need to spank right now

Just when you think you've struck gold you  finally figure out it ain't so.  Timet to decide if I am going to keep digging or if I am going to find a new hobby.

In short... Last night was hot! Getting in at 2 in the morning reminiscing about what my powerful legs did to him to made me get to where I NEEDED to be... Def a do over!!

I've got a new love!!! 

Wanna know who it is?  It's ME! Over the past year or so I've really been on a grind to get more healthier.  Going through the process I cried and got angry when I didn't reach the goals I set for myself.  One day I was in the mall and walked past a full length mirror and and I had to do a back up and verse.  I looked @ myself in full detail.  I was thinking, "Oh snap!"  Thats me!  Whoa!

Every since that moment I was proud of myself at how much I had changed and transformed.  I am a champion and I am winning.  Given this new found love I can't stay out of the shores trying on everything that compliments my new curves. Go me!

Thinking about this new found love of myself I am excited and can't wait to see what the future has in-store.

PS  Did you see that picture of my legs?  It is something serious!!!!

Just had a very strange meeting with someone from this site.... As Mya Angelou says... When someone shows you who they are-- BELIEVE them!

I have the desire to hear a sub at one of his weakest points.  The point where he can't take any more and he whole being throbs?  Maybe I'm in a sensual mood tonight or maybe it's the excitement of finally finding knee boots that go over my knees. but I know what I want. Call me so we can discuss this further?

A woman without curves is like a road without corners. You get where you're going quickly - but it's boring as hell!!

Merry Christmas to all in BDSM land.

Another year and still sub-less.  (sigh)  What is a dom to do?  I am not sure what other dommes will do but I am trying to stay positive and keep looking.  How do you know when a sub is serious and will truly reveals him as he appears to be?  That is easy you domme that ass until you see what it is really made of... LOL (literally).

Needless to say, yes: I am looking for the one.  I am not looking for a fly by night one-session get together.  I am looking for a sub who is in it to win it, this entails a long term relationship. 

To all subs who are prospects:  Its time to step ya game up and show me what you really got!!

If any body is going to the Black BDSM extravaganza in Baltimore please let me know.