tie4pleasure

About tie4pleasure

Chivalrous gentleman; quietly confident and self assured, HE, is a genuine and serious advocate and supporter of this wonderful lifestyle, yet he understands the need to temper this with those very important vanilla elements of life that keep us real. A warm and loving man away from the scene and a gentle and patient master during any scenario, confident, intelligent, experienced, imaginative, strong yet respectful of all limits where they apply, and willing to explore not only his own fantasies but also those of his beautiful sub in any scene. Practiced in Shibari/Kinbaku with all its' many delightful variations, He provides a safe and sane environment for any sub to realise her fantasies, broaden her horizons and explore her limits. He knows only too well that a happy sub is a good sub. He is willing to discuss his experience and any scene in detail by any medium.

He does not advocate intense pain for the sake of pain, however He does understand when punishment is fair and necessary, and will often use pleasure as an extremely effective torment. He has been involved in the lifestyle for the majority of his adult life and has encountered many people he would count as friends, and unfortunately many people who are less than genuine. He is willing to offer advice concerning how to move forward or provide support, emotional or otherwise, to those who are unsure of their true motivation for being here. Whilst a serious Dom he does have a sense of humor (one of the most important prerequisites for anyone serious about the lifestyle) and enjoys discussion at all levels. His discussion is open and free, offering levels of honesty which at first may cause the uninitiated some discomfort but ultimately total freedom of expression.

He is happy to discuss all and any aspects of the lifestyle/scene. He can assure complete discretion where required and believes that communication and discussion are almost as important as the lifestyle/scene itself. Stressing the importance of communication, it costs nothing to be polite and many genuine people miss out on untold opportunities because some people here think it is OK to be rude, either not replying to e-mails or blocking communications. It is far easier and more polite to actually say "I'm sorry but that's not for me" or "I'm not ready for that" or even "You're not my type"? It's alright to be scared or nervous, especially if you're new to this. In his opinion this site is here to help those new to this explore safely. He'd like to hear your thoughts, fantasies, opinions on this whether you're Dom, sub or switch.

He has encountered many people who are less than genuine here and He respectfully request that they do not bother to contact him. Whilst He is happy to discuss the li is not a rehearsal and He does not wish to have to deal with repeat time-wasters. Any advice He can give to help you progress through the lifestyle He will give gladly.

He does not seek to build a harem; nothing could be further from his mind. He seeks to find the 'one', she who will add to his completion. The 'one' with whom all may be shared.

He is well equipped in his mastery of the ropes, and combines this with many toys which add to the stimulations, physical, mental and spiritual available. He has close friends and playmates with whom He sometimes shares many if not all of his lifestyle pleasures.

Participation is meant to be an option and not an obligation