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About ThsHndofMine
I like rope and hard play. Orgasms are the eventual goal during play but how, the time it takes to get there and the various methods are up to me. Not looking for a domestic slave or a push-over. Some thoughtful smarts but not looking for Einstein and I don't expect me to be one either...maybe a PeeWeeHerman (HA!).
Intimacy within and outside the bedroom (woods, garage, golf course, wherever) both emotional and physical. I believe in training but in a passive way. The kind that we play....we learn about each other....we bring that knowledge back everytime we set apart our 'alone' time.
This is more sexual for me but it does bleed over into the rest of life. There is control and controlling. If you need someone 24/7 to tell you how to dress, what to eat, how to 'socialize' I'm not the guy for you. I like and need respectful debate. It doesn't 'have' to come from you but I want you to know that I will treasure your personality if there comes a day when we think there is more.
I am very kinky sexually but do not engage in anything harmful, blood, shit or scat, and I hope this doesn't need to be said but I will anyway....no children.
I do not come to you with a 'pre-commitment'. If you need a lifelong agreement before we even meet then you should move on to the next guy. I'm here to date with the hope of finding a lifelong partner in a full life. Doesn't anyone here 'date'?
I have a couple of kids ones older, one lives with his Mom but he means the world to me. Neither have any idea of my personal choices when it comes to this lifestyle. I don't believe I need to share it with them. People that you will meet that know me will tell you I am one of the kindest and gentless men they have ever met. I'm not 2 faced...I don't believe this lifestyle is at odds with the previous statement.
If you can envision yourself down on your knees one hour, bound and being mouth fucked and then later enjoying the mundane act of sharing in buying groceries together then we may have a basis of something. If you like to read that's a plus. If you like to read to me that's a plus/plus.
If you are looking for someone who is strong, healthy, tall, whose hand is firm and safe, that will take control of the moments, who will try his hardest to give you moments of ectasy within bondage and moments of ectasy outside of bondage, someone who you want to feel you can 'give your all' to in return....then let's start.
Please refrain from contacting me if you are married (men aren't the only ones). If you are married but really really really want to meet...have your husband contact me and tell me it's OK.
Lastly, you want my pic...then send me yours first. Do not ask for what you are not prepared to give. If we speak several times and want to move it further you will get my pic then.
PS: That was joke about the husband.
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