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In The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate, Gary Chapman describes 5 different love languages used to fill up your partner's "love tank": Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Physical Touch and Giving Gifts Often relationships fail because one or the other partner is not conveying their love with the right language. What conveys love to me are Acts of Service and Physical Touch - which fits well with a D/s relationship as a Dom. What are your languages?

I have had someone ask about blackmail. Blackmail, like any BDSM activity, should only be done consensually.? To some, the addition of blackmail is a very exciting, erotic, submission-deepening event that helps push past the reactance barrier into ecstatic helplessness.? To others, blackmail is an immediate sign of betrayal.? The same can be said of any BDSM activity, and like any BDSM activity, should never be performed unless all players consent. It is vitally important to never indulge in blackmail fantasies with someone you don't fully trust.? This extends to things that may not appear to be blackmail material at the time, such as any video or pictures taken during kinky sex activities. Real blackmail is quite illegal here in the US, so if anyone ever tries to abuse you with blackmail, you can be completely secure in the knowledge that they will not enjoy their time in prison.

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