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Male Dominant, 58, Bourgogne
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Male Switch, 35, London
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Male Dominant, 44, New York
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About ThomD
A vanilla friend of mine recommended this site knowing I would never feel whole unless i was in a Dom/sub relationship. Despite a successful career, comfortable income and I hope relative good looks, I have always found relationships difficult and I believe now it was because it was I was not being completely honest with myself. For too long I have been a round peg trying to fit into a square hole denying to myself the truth that I am submissive and only attractive to dominant personalities.
In previous relationships I have always wanted to please and believe in truly pampering your partner but those partners have clearly not been looking for that type of person. I am no doormat and have been sometime aggressive in my work to get the success I have achieved but below I have always craved being controlled on a personal level.
Sometimes my deep down desires scare me given how much the idea of being sadistically used, controlled and even abused, excites me so I am looking for someone who can take that control but is experience enough not to abuse it, even if they are welcome to abuse me!
If i do find the right person I know I can be generous, attentive, exciting, imaginative, pampering, and very obedient.
Not looking to rush into any relationship, I do not go on this site every day but am looking to slowly build a meaningful friendship that can blossom into a more meaningful relationship.
and not being completely unattractive. I have browsed the profiles on here an think what a wonderful sit, so many genuine and honest Dominants, you are all so beautiful I can't wait to one day meet one of you.
I quick description of me I am in my early 40's caucasian, single, working in a technology financing firm at director level. Submissive but fun and outgoing, shy with new people but very warm to my friends. I seek a genuine lady, age look and race not important, you are all beautiful, i do have a slight fetish for BBW and sadistic ladies but nothing that would overcome what i really seek in a similar mindset.
Be well and take care.
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