ThisBrokenLittle


ThisBlokeFLA Male Dominant, 23, Tampa Bay Area, Florida	thisboyGM Male Switch, 26, Richmond, Virginia	thisbeggingslu Female Submissive, 20

More Switch Women in Illinois

		Back		KPM		Directory		Interests

Fetishes
Into: forced deepthroat (receiving), "and why are you being punished little girl?", "are you daddy's good girl?", "babygirl needs her daddy, doesnt she?", "being petted till i fall asleep" (receiving), "can you sit down or does it hurt too much?", "come over here and sit on daddy's lap..." (everything to do with it), "cum for me, princess" (receiving), "don't get dressed, i'm not done with you" (receiving), "good girl, i'm proud of you"during aftercare (receiving), "good morning" blow jobs (giving), "instant innocence, just add pigtails", "it's ok... you're with me now." (receiving), "please daddy, please fuck me, please?!" (everything to do with it), "watch your language, little girl", "you are in so much trouble princess" (receiving), "you belong to me" whispered in my ear (receiving), a beautifiul, twisted, intellegent mind (everything to do with it), a firmly gripped neck (receiving), a fist full of hair and a growl in your ear (everything to do with it), a house with a white picket fence and a dungeon in the basement, a partner who finds my weirdness adorable, acting like a brat just to get a spanking, an orgasim so intense it makes you shake (everything to do with it), anaïs nin, androgyny, appealing to my brain, as well as my body. (everything to do with it), asphyxiaphilia, ass play (receiving), ass worship (receiving), bare bottom spanking (receiving), bare handed spanking (receiving), bbw bondage (everything to do with it), bdsm (everything to do with it), being daddy's dirty little slut (everything to do with it), being daddy's insatiable little whore, being daddy's little princess, being loved, protected and cared for (receiving), being pushed up against a wall in a passionate kiss (receiving), being sexy but not fucking a lot of people. (everything to do with it), being treated like a beautiful princess but fucked like a dirty little whore (everything to do with it), belt choking (receiving), belt spanking (receiving), big tits (everything to do with it), bisexuality (everything to do with it), biting (receiving), blindfolds (wearing), blow jobs (giving), body modification (everything to do with it), bondage (receiving), breast/nipple torture (receiving), breasts (everything to do with it), candle wax (receiving), caning (receiving), chicago girls (everything to do with it), chicago kinksters (everything to do with it), cold air conditioning and hard nipples (wearing), connecting on more levels than just sex (everything to do with it), cuddle me to sleep, fuck me awake (everything to do with it), cumming all over daddy's cock (everything to do with it), cunnilingus (everything to do with it), daddies who are both gentle and very strict, daddy babygirl, daddy/girl, deep throating (giving), depilation/shaving (everything to do with it), dildos (everything to do with it), discipline (receiving), erotic literature (everything to do with it), erotic photography (everything to do with it), face fucking, feeling protected by daddy (everything to do with it), feet (receiving), fetish models (everything to do with it), finding someone who feels like home (everything to do with it), fingering (receiving), foot massage (receiving), gagging/choked by cock (receiving), genuine and deep submission, the heartfelt kind that comes from trust, respect, lust, and mental and emotional connection (everything to do with it), getting you horny in inappropriate places, girls in pigtails (wearing), having her cuddle on my chest and fall asleep (everything to do with it), having my ass groped in public (receiving), hearing him growl "good girl" in your ear (receiving), high heels (wearing), humiliation (receiving), if they don't own any books, don't fuck them., intelligence, intelligent sexy bitches, kissing (everything to do with it), making love to your cock with my mouth. (giving), master/slave (everything to do with it), multiple orgasms (everything to do with it), nipples (everything to do with it), nylon stockings & pantyhose, orgasm denial (receiving), pin-ups (everything to do with it), proxy paige, rough sex (everything to do with it), sex in public, short skirts with no panties (wearing), sleepy sex, snuggling (everything to do with it), sub is not a synonym for doormat (everything to do with it), submission (everything to do with it), talking dirty (everything to do with it), teaching bratty little girls to behave (receiving), the glorious realisation that the brain is our largest and most exhilarating sexual organ (everything to do with it), thunderstorm sex (everything to do with it), truth (everything to do with it), verbal humiliation and degradation (receiving), vintage lingerie (everything to do with it), waking daddy up by grinding my ass against his cock so he'll wake up and take what belongs to him (everything to do with it), wax (receiving), writing erotica (everything to do with it), yes daddy.

Curious about: animal tail butt plugs (wearing), chakra energy play, collar and lead/leash (wearing), consensual nonconsent (everything to do with it), e-stim (receiving), energy play (everything to do with it), face sitting/smothering (giving), female ejaculation (receiving), fisting (receiving), fucking machines (receiving), hypnosis (receiving), rigging by rockstars (receiving), rope bondage/suspension (receiving), squirting.

THREE THINGS OF IMPORTANCE:

You should probably know that I DO NOT friend people with whom I've had no contact. So, if you want to be my "friend" (& there ARE benefits to being friends), drop me a line & start a conversation! Everyone on my "friends" list is TRULY a friend of mine... we may or may not live near each other & we may or may not have met in person & we may or may not have fucked each other's brains out, but they are people who have taken the time to know me & vise versa. I'm not a friend's list whore. I don't care how many people friend me. It's QUALITY, not quantity. For me, anyway.

I've recently discovered that I'm a "little". If I had to guess I'd say between 8 - 10... I don't know much, if anything, about being a little, but I just had my <3 broken by someone who said they could be my Daddy.... hence the 'broken' part of my nickname... If anyone can impart some wisdom on this whole part of the scene, I would surely appreciate it.... :) I'm hoping I'll someday find my Daddy, but I'm starting to lose faith... are you out there, Daddy? I miss you soooooo much...

AND

WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, or personal means - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile, writings, videos or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

Now, that being said....

I got involved in the scene at 16, & though it hasn't been a CONSTANT part of my life, it's certainly been a lot of fun! I started out purely submissive, but thanks to exposure , an open mind & a fortunate misunderstanding I got to become experienced in Dominating & I REALLY learned to love it! <3 I guess one could say I'm a True Switch, though 9 out of 10 times, I'd prefer to serve. Although - thinking about it now - all my Doms have been men (so have my subs, come to think of it....?), I think I might enjoy some time with some other lovely ladies & either be taught to serve them, or do some teaching myself... ;)

Likes:
Safety, safety, safety! For me, BDSM is about TRUST, 1st & foremost. Really, the sex is one of the least important things about it...
Limit pushing/boundary expansion
Restraints
Toys
Choking/asphyxiation play
Spanking
Hair-pulling (though mine is short now, so not easy)
Forced orgasm
Orgasm denial
Mild pain (candle wax, nipple claps... that sort of thing. .. LEAVE NO MARKS!)
Did I mention safety???
Open minds
Gender bending (I recently discovered I'm pan-sexual - 2 out of my 3 ex-fiancés have identified themselves as transgender & my 3rd is openly bisexual. I guess I attract gender-fluidity!?)
RESPECT - for others & ourselves!

Oh, & I'm always open to trying new things - don't know what you like until you try it TWICE!

Dislikes:
Pompous assholes - leave your ego at the door, we're all equal here!
Irresponsible play - always be mindful of others!
Disrespect, obviously.
NO KIDS, BLOOD, POOP, VOMIT OR OTHER BODILY REJECTIONS, PLEASE! That shit is just GROSS. (Sorry if you like it - I don't! )
General douchebaggery. You play nice & so will I.
Republicans (generally) & people who call themselves "christians" & actually use the bible as an excuse for hate &/or bigotry (see 1st dislike).

Outside of Fetlife, I'm a pretty ordinary person. I love getting tattoed. I crochet.... Everything. I love music. Love singing (used to be good at it). I have a fucked up sense of humor & a passion to stand up for injustice. I'm a HUGE Bernie Sanders supporter (I take my politics AND my patriotism VERY seriously). I have been sober from all mind-altering substances (unless you include nicotine, caffiene & HUGE COCK mind-altering substances) for just over 7 years & I've NO intention of going back to that shit. I CAN go to a bar to meet friends (I'll just have a Coke), but I try not to hang out there. If we do meet in person, I'm not going to freak out if you drink around me, but if you're a habitual user of legal/illegal drugs... well, stop reading now cuz I don't want jack shit to do with you! (Unless you need help quitting, then I got your back). Yes, I AM a friend of Bill W. If you know who that is, don't worry, I won't tell ANYONE that you're a friend of his, too. I just have no reason to hide it. I'm not ashamed of who I am or what I've done. The entire journey has made me who I am today & for once in my life, I LIKE WHO I AM TODAY (YAY!!!)! I am a devoted friend, a rapacious lover, & the best person I can be today. But keep in mind, I am CERTAINLY, 100% what the bdsmtest says I am - a BRAT. :D Spoil me & you'll never be happier. Mistreat me & you'll wish you could rip your ears off the sides or your head Van Gough style! LOL

== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
100% Brat
99% Bondage receiver
94% Degradation receiver
92% Submissive
86% Experimentalist
81% Exhibitionist
75% Masochist
74% Primal (Prey)
73% Switch
67% Voyeur
60% girl/boy
59% Slave
54% Non-monogamist
40% Primal (Hunter)
37% Master/Mistress
36% Dominant
32% Pet
31% Owner
27% Sadist
26% Degradation giver
26% Bondage giver
24% Daddy/Mommy
21% Ageplayer
19% Vanilla
13% Brat tamer
13% All-Rounder
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=507559

So, if you've gotten this far, thanks for taking the time to read it all!

(One last thing - the single most important part of my life is my 3 year old. Please don't ever ask me to put you or the scene or anything before my child. Not only will that not happen, but you will have lost a wonderful person from your life FOREVER. Thanks again!)

Here are a few friendly tips on how to get into my pants for all you Kinksters. Some of this is common sense (which is not at all common) and applicable to MANY people - not just me - while other tips are more specific to me and only me... so here goes -

1. Like the Queen of Soul, Aretha Franklin, put it - R E S P E C T!!!! If you can't/don't respect that my body is a gift and that I may or may not choose to give this gift to you, then you likely don't deserve it.

2. The quickest way into my pants is through my mind - get in there. Get in there good so that I can't stop thinking about whatever wonderful thing that makes you YOU and different from everyone else... give me your VALUE and I'll hand that ass over sooner than you can say, "Cum for Daddy, Princess...."

3. The English language is a vast and wondrous playground. Get to know it. Get to know it WELL. Communication is KEY in kink, as well as in relationships and pretty much all areas of life. If you cannot or will not communicate your thoughts, ideas and/or feelings in an effective way, we have nothing to say to each other.

More on Communication:
This is a very important subject to me. I have spent a lifetime learning my way around said vast and wonderful playground known as the English language. DO NOT presume that I do not mean EXACTLY what I say. Yes, I am a dork at heart <3 and I can goof off with the best of them. But when I'm being serious, know that you can take what I'm saying at face value. I do not insinuate. I do not play games. If I want something or someone, I will ask for it. If I want you to have something (my submission), I will give it to you and notify you that it is yours in NO UNCERTAIN TERMS. There will NEVER be second-guessing for you. I say what I mean and I mean what I say, and if I haven't said "YES, the answer is "NO!" Under that same line of thought - DO NOT give me orders and/or tell me what to do until I have given you my submission. DO NOT look at me like a hungry lion looks at a weak gazelle unless I have told you explicitly that we should be naked together (or something along the line of "I want you."). I am not a piece of meat, I am not a whore, I am a human being. If you can't/won't see/know that - you don't deserve to have me. Simple as that.

4. Laugh at my jokes. I'm a dork and I joke a lot. I know I'm not funny, but I try. Show me that you appreciate the effort and laugh at me once in a while. I laugh at myself daily.

5. Make me laugh. Be silly. Be crazy. Be the most fun you. Life is too short to be serious all the time. If you can't enjoy your life, even in the worst of the shit, I'm not going to enjoy being a part of your life.

6. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. You don't have to be hurtfully honest, but I can hear something I don't want to hear/won't like hearing and still respect you for being honest. It's always easier to swallow the truth, than it is to deal with the betrayal of being lied to. I will easily forgive bad but honest news but I WILL NOT forgive being lied to outright. Just that simple. That also means, have YOUR OWN PICTURE on your profile - or when you share your pic with me, don't show me a supermodel, or a pic of who you were 20 years ago in your prime. Either I'll be attracted to you or I won't. Don't take it personally. We all have our preferences. I'm being honest with who I am, so show some appreciation for that by being honest about who you are.

7. Even if you’re not, PRETEND to be interested in my life. Ask questions. Make an effort. Nobody likes to be ignored or devalued.

That's it for now. This list may or may not be revised or added to as time goes on. Feel free to check back often. If you feel the same way, feel free to copy and paste to your writing - just gimme my props.

thicktongue Male Dominant, 50, champlin, Minnesota	thissexyguy Male Dominant, 48, New York	thinkingabouti Dominant Couple, 51, Jackson, Tennessee	thing1 Male Dominant, 55, Belmont, Massachusetts
thinkthyme Female Submissive, 28, Near Atl, Georgia	thich Male Submissive, 38	thissubs4u Male Submissive, 30, Largo/Clearwater, Florida	thisrottenboy Male Dominant, 26, Cleveland, Ohio
ThickBlkMaster Male Dominant, 27, Minneapolis, Minnesota	thickloadforu Male Switch, 36, HARRISBURG, Pennsylvania	THICKROD Male Dominant, 32	thisold1 Male Switch, 56, Rockwood, Tennessee