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ThinkingDom

Dominant Couple, 51, Jackson, Tennessee
Female Submissive, 28, Near Atl, Georgia
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About ThinkingDom


I am a Alpha looking for a sub in southern CA.  Real time only...no cyber etc.

I enjoy the lifestyle but I am not defined by it.  I am experienced and have my own real life opinions of what bdsm is.  You should have a brain, a life, humor, a sense of style, and a desire to please.  You need to be able to take care of yourself....I'm looking for an asset not a burden.

And for god sakes have a sense of humor!

I am primarily interested in private domination...I don't need to be on display for the world to see.  Not that my domination ends at the front door...just that we will be the ones aware of it.

For me BDSM starts in your head.... it is the power exchange that is the primary focus.  The act of kneeling can be much more profoundly submissive than taking a flogger. 

I don't dress up.  I don't yell and bellow.  I don't believe in verbal humiliation. 

I do believe that your submission is a gift.  I believe that a good dom/sub relationship (for play or otherwise) should be a positive experience...at least in the end result.

My idea of dominance does extend into the "taken in hand" / "DD" world.  You can expect to be subject to rules and discipline. 

I do respect limits and safewords but I am looking for a woman prepared to accept a reasonable amount pain for play and punishment.  I am particularly fond of my wooden paddle....

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