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thinkinboutit43

Dominant Couple, 51, Jackson, Tennessee
Female Submissive, 28, Near Atl, Georgia
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About thinkinboutit43

I cant seem to add a profile picture, so I thought I would at least put a picture here.

First, Ill tell you about myself.

Id love to tell you exactly what Im looking for here, but Im not sure what it is yet. I do know I would like to find a man who will guide me, mold me, love me, and take care of me while we are home. Outside of the home Im a very independent woman. Im told Im intelligent, funny, caring , and compassionate. Im also adventurous, passionate, and open to exploring almost anything. The man Im looking for will need to be patient, appreciate the humor in any situation, and try to understand my way of dealing with things. You will notice I said try, I dont expect miracles. Im a giving person and I would love the opportunity to show the right man just how giving I am. To concentrate my efforts on that one special man. I dont let go of control easily, but when I find that man I will happily surrender myself to him. He will have my trust, my loyalty, my love, and my total submission. He will not, however, have my total obedience. Im not a very good sub in regard to obedience. I dont try to be difficult, but I do need constant reassurance that my Dom can control me even when I cant control myself. I need to know he is stronger, mentally and physically, than I am. I need to know he is wiser than I am so I know I can learn from him. I will be resistant and, at times, disobedient so my Dom will show me he is in control. Maybe, in time, this need will go away, but I cant say for sure. Like I said, its not a desire to be difficult, but a need so I can feel secure and safe. Results from bdsmtest.org 98 Submissive 95 Rope Bunny 71 Non-monogamist 66 Experimentalist 58 Brat 57 Slave 52 Primal (Prey) 43 Masochist 28 GirlBoy 23 Vanilla 21 Degradee 12 Exhibitionist 9 Pet 5 Voyeur 2 Ageplayer 1 Rigger 1 Primal (Hunter) 1 DaddyMommy 0 Dominant 0 Sadist 0 MasterMistress 0 Degrader 0 Brat Tamer 0 Owner 0 Switch See my results online at bdsmtest.orgresult.?id1193581.

My current situation is a little different than it was when I first wrote this. While I would still love to find a Dom, Im currently attached to a married couple who are interested in adding a new element to our relationship. Ive been with my couple for nearly 4 years and we have discussed bringing in a male submissive slave. They are not a bdsm couple, so the submissive would be mine to do with as I please. I want the submissive to be bisexual so he could join all of us. The slave would be expected to per some domestic tasks as well. I would expect complete obedience to me and my couple. My submissive or slave would be there for all of our pleasure, but would be answerable to me. Punishment, when necessary would be meted out by me. Rewards for good behavior would be given by all of us, and they will be sublime.

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