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	About thiniceandbelle Master and slave pair are looking for a second girl to join a household that already has four kids and a cat. A slight touch of insanity and a great sense of humor are a must! Extra Hate... I'm a computer professional... That means I get PAID to work on/with computers... don't expect free solutions...so don't ask.

Based on some things I've read in other's profiles regarding dominant men, I thought I would copy a myspace blog entry I made last year.? Sorry about the inability to get any kind of text formatting to work.

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Domanance - real vs wana-be

I find myself in a similar position I've been almost everywhere I go.? I still seem to have a presents about me that bothers some people....interestingly...mostly men.? Women don't seem to have a problem with me and I can usually get most women to smile...even when they are not 'in the mood' to smile.? Laughter is the best medicine...especially for emotional issues and stress.

I do have an advantage now over what I had when I was in HS and college.? I now know what I am.? I never understood before why I clashed with most men and get along with most women.? While I'm a bit passive, I'm dominant and can be authoritative ( without being abusive ).? Other men have to work at and fight to establish their dominance while I seem to have it without trying.? This inevitably causes conflict with men who have to work at it.? The only analogy that comes to mind is in a pack of dogs, there is the alpha...the big dog.? Then there are those who want to be and will even fight the big dog to try to establish their dominance.? They may win for a day but the real alpha ultimately always comes out on top.?

I'm glad I'm older now and that era of violence to try to put me down is in the past.? Now it's just plotting and gossip behind each others back to try to undermine reputation...? I have a secrete weapon though that seem to really irritate some...Its called, I don't care what they think.? I've given up trying to fit in.? I'm simply not an average 'earth male'.? I never have been, probably never will be.? I'm in a class of my own.? I define myself and it doesn't matter what you think.? I've reached a point where I'm more amused by the drama surrounding others opinions.

I'm not just referring to those I directly interact with.? Just walking up the isles at work, you can tell the "wana-be's" from average or other alphas.? They carry themselves in a way where the look like they are constipated.? A polite greeting is taken as an insult and a puffed up rooster response...as if some unspoken challenge is being made.? I think its amusing...? If they are so dominant, why is the presents of another dominant such an insult?? Just shows they have a weak character and are easily threatened because they just don't get it...? Only weak men have to resort to violence to prove their "dominance".

Along that line of thinking...its very unfortunate that those who use violence establish the standard of expected behavior to average people.? They don't understand that dominance and violence are not the same thing.? "wanna-be's" use fear and intimidation to establish a dominate position within their group...IMO that does not make them dominate people, just violent.? They are unfortunately the ones that attract the attention and establish the mindset in average people.

So when average people encounter "real" dominant people rather than simply violent people, they are intimidated and expect violent behavior and even accuse them of such.? This is unfortunate for us, but I guess, comes with the territory.? The few of us who are, have to deal with the stigma of those who wish they were.? A real man doesn't have to force his dominance, his presents is sufficient.

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