Forewarned is forearmed they say. It is my duty to this community to make
sure that everyone is reminded of one of the potential pitfalls. Here's the
story.........
For some time, my girl and I have been seeking to add a sister sub/slave in
an effort to build our poly family. We've talked with many, met a few and
learned a lot about people (and ourselves) along the way.
Recently, I began communicating with a sub/slave I met on CM. One thing led
to another and my girl and I picked her up and went out for coffee.
It was amazing evening, the conversation was lively and all the answers we
sought seemed to have us all on the same page, We arranged to have her to my
home for the weekend. We spent time shopping, talking, and learning about each
other.
My girl and I agreed that we may have found someone that would fit nicely
with us on all levels.
As time passed this new girl seemed to grow closer to me and we began
discussing the possibility of her moving in since she lived in a not so nice
section of town and we thought we could rescue her from her environment and
fold her into our life. It seemed like a dream come true.
Then she told me that there was something I needed to know about her.
She confided in me through her tears that she had been in prison and began
to tell me a story that was hard to hear. As it turns out she had been
convicted of being involved in an adoption scam. I did a search and dug up some
disturbing information about her. As it turns out she had been found guilty of presenting
herself as pregnant in another state and had defrauded people looking for a
baby out of thousands of dollars.
She was referred to by the prosecutor as a "thief of hearts".
My girl and I are both very family oriented and pride ourselves on our relationships
with our children. She has an amazing level of communication with her daughter
as I do with my 3 girls.
It was quite a dilemma because we both believe in second chances and we were
blinded by this girls ability to "re-manufacture the truth". We are
not gullible however and I decided we'd approach her with caution and see how
she acted. There's an old saying that says you can tell what someone will be
tomorrow by what they were yesterday.
In short we decided to try and not hold her past against her because we only
knew part of the story. This new girl had asked me not tell my alpha girl about
her past and I explained that I wasn't about keeping secrets. Our relationship
is, and always has been, based in honor, truth, openness, and communication.
The new girl relented based on my insistence that it could be no other way.
She closed the topic with, "fine but I won't discuss my past with
her".
We went to her apartment one day because "she needed to be touched, or
she'd go crazy". While I worked with her in the bedroom, my girl used her
computer to surf the net and check email. When we were done, she gave us a
bunch of things to take with us. A shelf with fairies on it, and a dress, and a
chair etc. None of it was requested, it was offered and we were told we'd be
helping her out by allowing her to clear some space.
Now, anyone that knows my girl knows her to be one of the sweetest most
giving people in this lifestyle or any other. She wrote an email to this new
girl that basically said that she was willing to try and get to know her and
that she hoped one day she'd trust her enough to talk about it. The response of
this new girl was a vitriolic, hate filled diatribe.
I knew then we had to distance ourselves from her, but wanted to do so
slowly since it was apparent there was a lot we didn't know.
Then I fell Ill
and was in the hospital for a week.
When I finally recovered and got back home, I had numerous emails from this
new girl beginning with the fact she was resentful that my girl had let her
know that I had fallen ill. She didn't want to be communicated with by my
Alpha.
Now, to the point of this post....
I received a hate filled email from this woman that threatened to
"out" my girl to her employer, and that she was going to press
charges claiming my girl had "stolen" the things from her. None of
which has any resemblance to the truth. Again, if you know my girl, you know
she is someone you can trust with your life ( I know I have).
I just wanted to let this group know about this crazed woman to maybe help
anyone here that might have run across her on CM to know what type of person
she actually is.
Our integrity, reputation, and honor are very important to us and this woman
is a danger to anyone that befriends her.
I have purposely not included her screen name here because that would be
hypocritical of me to complain about the threat to be outed while outing her. I
will say that I have links to the stories about her case as well as a video of
her trial that I will share with anyone interested. If you want to know her CM
ID, I will share that as well if you write me directly and request it.
One of the tenants that we all abide by and require is discretion. I was
glad to just walk away from this person until she threatened my girls security.
I will do whatever is necessary to protect those I care about.
