| |
|
|
Home |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Live |
|
|
|
|
Join |
|
Collarspace |
|
|
|
|
Dating |
|
|
|
|
News |
|
|
|
|
Glossary |
|
|
|
|
Mobile |
|
|
|
|
Alt |
|
|
|
|
Safety |
|
|
|
|
Toys |
|
|
|
|
Live BDSM |
|
|
|
|
Resources |
|
|
|
|
Welcome |
|
| |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Login |
|
|
 |
|
 |
|
|
|
|
Male Dominant, 50, champlin, Minnesota
|
Male Dominant, 27, Minneapolis, Minnesota
|
Male Switch, 36, HARRISBURG, Pennsylvania
| | |
|
| Back |
| KPM |
| Directory |
| Interests |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
About Thickbaby
Currently single but seeing where it goes with a few, if that bothers you then keep it moving. You don't own me or my profile so don't get butt hurt should I delete your message should I find it rude or annoying. Submissive don't mean a door mat. And don't demamd a proof of gender picture. You will get told off quickly.
I am not sure if anyone ever reads a persons profile but I have decided to update mine. For any potential Doms out there if you read past this and read ALL of my profile I applaud you. I am a bratty submissive yes, I am looking for a long term relationship not one where I am in the shadows until my Dom beckons for his rocks to get off. If you are interested in me then this is how it will go. We can meet up at munches if there is a scene, which there normally is with my group you may join in but that is as far as it goes. There will be no scenes outside of our munches until Itrust you and there will be no sex until I am sure it is leading to a more permanent relationship. Not asking for marriage here so it's not asking for to much. You may also find me on fetlife under the same name as this one. Ok let start this off with if I get a message from you and it starts off sexual or how you wish to "train" me you will be blocked with out notice. If you send me a message and you push your fantasy on me when I clearly try to stay clear of any sexual talk you will be blocked with no warning. If you are over the ages of 40 to 43 ish please do NOT send me a message asking me to be your anything. And if you can not accept my rules then you are NOT worth my time. To tell you more about me. I am in my mid 20's, I work a full time job so talking can be a bit rough unless I get on Collarspace on my phone. I am a submissive babygirl/brat who loves to prank my sisters and hump legs for giggles. I'm very bubbly for the most part, love to laugh and help my sisters when they need a shoulder. I am very childish and playful, throw my fits when I don't get my way but what little brat don't? My vanilla likes are very simple, I love to read hehe me and my sisters was just discussing some books just a few months ago. I LOVE to go camping, I think just taking a few days away from our modern world is fun, for a short time of course. Fishing, it's very boring but gives you time to sit and think about life in general. Going out and eating at restaurants, a great time for family to just bond when life gets crazy and you just don't wanna cook. I use to go bowling even if I did suck at it but it was fun and got me out of the house. I love going and watching movies, mostly comedy because I love a movie that can make me laugh. But I will watch tear-jerkers. I've been in the lifestyle for about 5 years, mostly online because that was where I felt the most safest at. I've had some experience in real time. I'm learning to like doing homework because it makes me think of who I really am and makes me want to learn more. |
|
|
|
|
Tell your bestie you're gonna have to start datin again cause the guy you was talking to is a little busy and will be for awhile and she decides MAKE OVER!!! Yay....Not lmao. Hey Collarspace what's up? Just a quick rant....Do NOT fucking message me if you are gonna send rudes messages and then block me like a small pathetic pussy of a man. Do NOT let my "title" on here fool you, I am NOT that submissive at all. I may no longer live my life in the lifestyle but I NEED someone who is tp balance me out.... |
| |
| |
|
|
Let me just put this out there....I am no longer in the lifestyle, I get on here to talk with the few men that I have a muteral respect for and respect me and my boundaries. And who I rather enjoy speaking with. Why did I leave? Simple I wasn't happy, men on here or fet seem to have NO clue what a Dom is or how to behave as onne. To many people have made this lifestyle all about sex inatead of a bond with that person that completes you. Not sayimg that wedding bells have to part of the package or anything but fuck people the lifestyle is about trust, respect, and a bond stronger then anything. How in the fuck do you get that with just sex? If that is how you work then awesome. But not me. |
| |
| |
|
|
I really need to update my profile on here and fetlife, life is a forever changing experience! |
| |
| |
|
|
Not exactly sure how to feel, I was just blocked by someone I met on here and had been speaking with for close to 2 years. I feel hurt and lost and so unsure. Part my fault cause I got really angry about something we was discussing. Live and learn I guess, wouldn't hurt so bad if I didn't care about him. |
| |
| |
|
|
Ok so this is how it's going go if you can't be nice then don't message me. If you have nothing better to do then harass strangers on a kink site then do NOT message me cause I WILL go off. And be a man and not block the person you sent a rude message too. Allow that woman or man to respond to the rude message. And how about you leave my ex out of it. |
| |
| |
|
|
So I know I haven't really posted much but that's because well I only get on to check and see how friends are, check to see if I have any messages and that's about it. But this week has been funny as all get out.....Now, if you haven't read any of my other writings then what is about to be told will shock the hell out of you, if you HAVE read some of my past writings then you know how open I am with my family.....SO! Here goes.
Went out last weekend with a friend of mine and a friend of my boyfriend's, got a motel room well MY friend was supposed to went home since she lived in the town but nooooooo.....She stayed and woke me up having sex, pissed me off, to me that was totally disrespectful to my boyfriend and I, no I don't want to hear your opinions on MY morals just because I'm a kinkster does not mean I don't have boundaries, So I got my ass jumped by my mother, which then I had to explain what happened and I'm the type of girl that goes into FULL detail.
The next night after going out boyfriend and I are having sex in which case my mother just walks into my room just as my boyfriend is mounting me, we're scurrying to get covered and she just walks on like she didn't see shit. Then my dad tells me a few nights later after she walks in on us that him and mom been up all night doing the do. At which time as I am walking into the living room to go out the front door to head to work, I give my mother a thumbs up and give her a way to go! She looks at me like, "what the fuck are you talking about?" Then asks dad what I meant by that and before he could answer I told her, "Doing an all nighter, way to go mom!" She rolls her eyes and glares at dad who is laughing, I told her to be careful coming through my room to go to the restroom cause boyfriend and I was gonna be going at it and what does she do!? She walks in on us lastnight! I could not stop laughing...... |
| |
| |
|
|
Got a munch coming up this weekend! It'll be new for me cause I'm so used to having a scene at all our other munches. But I'm willing to go with the flow |
| |
| |
|
|
Last night was amazing....While munches are not normally made for play or scenes our munches normally are! Last night was our first munch as a branch from our main group and it was AMAZING! I am currently in blissful pain from my blissful flogging and fire hose paddle scene I had last night. To say this brat is beyond happy is an understatement! |
| |
| |
|
|
Men on this site amaze me.....I can admit to being naive most of the time. Always willing to give someone a chance. But when my kink family tell me something don't sound right your ass is blocked without warning. No warning means you can't harass me, try to talk me out of it or try and belittle me by calling me horrible names. I don't give out red flags, you do. I have a mental illness not a crazy psychopath. |
| |
| |
|
|
Ok my Domly Doms of Collarspace, I have gotten messages mistakening me as a slave. I am here to correct you, I am NOT a slave you can hardly call me submissive. I am a masochist brat who needs her sadistic Daddy/Sir. No this does not mean I will consider every Dom who messages me. Because well, some of you fuckers are like REALLY far away! Thank you much lovelies! Muah! |
| |
| |
|
|
I noticed small things excite me. Like getting more ink this weekend hopefully and the thought of getting beat again. It's the real small small things that make me the most happy. |
| |
| |
|
|
*Warning rant ahead*
Today has been pretty awesome. Started talking to a few new people, told a few men off. Now here is where my rant starts, now as you read this rant one question will cross your mind, "What do you expect on a website like this?" I will get to that at the end of my rant.
Roughly an hour ago I got a message from a man in Canada. The message was for me to come be his sex slave. I went and read his profile and it disgusted me. He takes away limits and safewords period. No true Dom does that unless the submissive in question is more then ok with that and also wants that. The woman is forced to be naked at all times even with company. Once again the Dom don't just make the rules it is talked over until it is blue in the face. And what really just disgusted me was he forces these women to be his toilet and pisses and shits in their mouths where they are then forced to swallow it and thank him. Now if this is your cup of tea then by all means but it is totally not mine. Being FORCED is not my cup of tea at all. Now all this being said I called him out. For one I was a stranger to him, never talked to this man at all.
Now to answer that little question that we all ask when someone like me rants and raves and bitches. We are ALL human. We should all be treated as such more so to the unowned who do NOT have to put up with the constant bullshit that is dished our way more so if we have a fucking vagina between our legs.
Ladies, being a Lady never goes out of style. Stand up for yourself, let these men know you are more then a kink. You are a strong woman and you deserve to be treated like a lady.
Rant over for now. |
| |
| |
|
|
So I signed up for bdsmdating.com I don't need to tell you what ot is for, the name says it all. But anyways it was going ok, you're normal everyday dick heads thinking you want their cocks just because you responded to their little message.
But the one that just made me take my account down was a guy who sent me 24 fucking messages back to back asking me if I would let a dog mount me and fuck me in the ass and pussy. Then proceeded to tell me I wasn't naughty and kinky. I lost it. I went smooth the fuck off on him. And deleted my account. If that is what you're into then fine. Great! More power to you. But do NOT send me messages asking me that question. |
| |
| |
|
|
The things that irk me is being told I can't do this or I can't do that or I can't handle this or I can't handle that or I'm not ready for this and that. You don't know what I can handle and neither do I. You don't know what I'm ready for and neither do I. But I want to see, if I can handle it or not or if I'm ready or not. |
| |
| |
|
|
I got a battle wound today! Hurts too. |
| |
| |
|
|
I just realized something....I have to do my limit list again! All that hard work down the drain..... Fuck! Asked Daddy about some training sessions on my visits with him because I think that is why only he is brqve enough to be my Daddy plus Mistress says a brat isn't for everyone. |
| |
| |
|
|
Where oh where have all the people I was talking to gone? |
| |
| |
|
|
Watching Divorce Court on youtube and came across this one where the woman tied up her husband and blindfolded him, this is what he said while telling it.
"She had me tied up right? And I was standing there with the blindfold on going this is a bad idea. This is a really bad idea. Shouldn't we use a safeword or something? And then Judge she started whipping me telling me to call her Queen Kitty!" LMAO!!! |
| |
| |
|
|
Yesterday I was slightly overwhelmed as my imbox blew up with messages. All but one was very polite and never ever rude so to you wonderful gentlemen I thank you. One kind of caught me off guard since the gentleman in question wanted me to fly to him....I was unaware that that topic was the very first thing you ask a stranger. Whatever happened to men introducing themsevles first before anything remotely bdsm was spoke about? I know this is a bdsm website but I am far more attractive to a man that wants to get to know me first instead of my kinks. |
| |
| |
|
|
I feel so alone now that a person I thought was my friend is now gone. I have Mommy and my sisters, I guess I am content with that. |
| |
| |
|
|
I have a very odd question, would it be wise to share an account with my Mentor/Protector on here? |
| |
| |
|
|
I know no one will read this but it is in my honest opinion that these BDSM websites have become another porn site for preditors to sit in wait for young women like me. Who are either completely new or new at putting themselves out there in hopes of finding that one person to complete them. If you wish to discuss this send me a message, I'll get the ok from my Protector/Mommy and let you know. |
| |
| |
|
|
Well things with Mommy are going well. As my Protector she is awesome, as my temp Mommy, very strict when it comes to talking to men with in the lifestyle. I've only gotten in trouble a few times. It's hard to remember but I'm doing it! |
| |
| |
|
|
Ok so upon talking to my sub mother, one of 3 mentors that I have online, I know that I need to grow. So I'm hoping to make FRIENDS to help me grow. She says gay men or submissive women should be where I start. Go to munches, but the thing is there is never ever any in my town and I have no way of getting there. But I really want to grow as a submissive brat and a Domme to my two online, long distance subs that I love dearly and have took the time it takes to make what we have work. I've had my?transsexual?for 4 years. Back when he was a guy and now as he starts his journey on transforming into a woman. And my little gay AB whom I've had for a year and we do battle believe me. So I just want to grow so badly. If anyone is up for friends then hit me up because friends is all I can give at the moment. |
| |
| |
|
|
So I updated my profile like I said, Sir and I came to an understanding. We can't really be anything more then friends with benifits due to the distance. I respect that because He was very upfront and honest with me. So if anyone is interested then give me a hollar and PLEASE be close. If I don't answer during the weekend that is because I shall be with Sir til my Daddy/Sir finds me! |
| |
| |
|
|
I will be updating my profile, may take some things out and add stuff in it's place or just add more as I read what I have and see what needs to be whatever. So if you have been checking out my profile, keep a look out for upcoming updates. |
| |
| |
|
|
Here recently I had a great experience, I had a Top friend come and see me because I was down. We went driving around in His car and while doing that He went on to see just how well I could handle pain. I loved my marks that are now fading. |
| |
| |
|
|
So here is a little more about little ole me, I love comedy, some action movies, and horror movies.....Uh, they give me nightmares. What do I like to do for fun, you ask? Well I normally on a Friday night go to Ihop with a bunch of my former co-workers and gossip about what we been up to. But I really want friends in the lifestyle and just chill. But mostly my life is boring, I work 5 days a week, and then spend my weekends cleaning my house or spend a day with my family across the street. |
| |
| |
|
|
I fund it funny that you have the same people looking at your profile but they won't send you a message and when you send one it never gets replied too. Just find that funny..... |
| |
| |
|
|
I can't seem to find what I am looking for, it could just be me but who knows. The lifestyle excites me, there is no denying this, but when I get men talking to me, I freeze up on the whole meeting part. My past is my past and it the number 1 reason why men frighten me. I swear if I was attracted to women even a little bit I would seek a Mistress. In a way the thing I love also frightens me, I'm not fully sure what I want out of a D/s relationship on me as a sub and a Domme. It seems no one wants to grow from friendship they would just rather jump in the bed and go from there. That is just something I won't do. Or they want me alone at their place, once again, NOT happening. I'll give this a longer shot then I may delete my account. |
| |
| |
|
|
So I see a lot of these "Findoms" and I think to myself, "Are you that lazy that you can't support yourself that you must depend on a submissive to do that for you?" I'm not bashing anyone by any means but really this lifestyle is NOT to use people it's to bond people damn! But on a brighter side I talked to my AB and I'm a happy Mommy again! |
| |
| |
|
|
So my weekend didn't go the way I had wanted, but oh well, on to the bext one. I think I'm just gonna NOT gonna look, let it come to me. |
| |
| |
|
|
Hello everyone, I'm back! Here is a thought, you know as you go to your home page or main page, it has people all over the US and other countries on there for you to read right? Well, this little girl was reading and saw something on someone's profile that I kinda do agree with. No one in their 20's should be concidered a Dom/me. Well I am but I'm not, but I wish to home in on my Domme side. But I also think that EVERYONE who says they have a Dominate personality should walk in the shoes of a submissive, no matter what form it is in. This way a Dom/me KNOWS what they are getting and maybe they will cherish it more. You don't have to agree or even do it, but I also think submissives, more so us new ones should walk in the shoes of our Daddy, Mommy, Master, and/or Mistress just so we KNOW what they go through with us. |
| |
| |
|
|
So, I was thinking about our "labels," who are any of us to label anyone much less ourselves? I think Papi would get a small grin out of this but I would like to think I am more then just a submissive or a Domme, I happen to think that I am a great listener, a pretty damn good friend, a hard worker, the best daughter, a good role model for my cousins, neices, nephews, and my brother. I'm a pleaser by nature, hate when someone is upset with me. So if I had to label me as something, I would label me as well.....Me. So if anyone just wants to talk, I don't care what walkf life you are from, I love learning more about a lifestyle I have come to love. |
| |
| |
|
|
This little submissive switch is happy, I have my boy, whom I will be aeeing Saturday, and I now have my Papi! My poly family is complete, I also have a sister so this should be fun. Can't wait to see how this all goes. Nervous, excited, and extremely happy! |
| |
| |
|
|
I have yet to find someone who can chat, respect the limits you set and still want to find out more about you. I seem to get people that start a conversation and then mid-way through they just poof with no warning. And I seem to attract submissive men, nothing wrong with that but I want a Daddy, closer to my age would be nice and in my state, closer to my town. So not seeing this happening. |
| |
| |
|
|
| |
|
Male Dominant, 48, New York
|
Dominant Couple, 51, Jackson, Tennessee
|
Male Dominant, 55, Belmont, Massachusetts
|
Female Submissive, 28, Near Atl, Georgia
| | |
Male Submissive, 38
|
Male Submissive, 30, Largo/Clearwater, Florida
|
Male Dominant, 26, Cleveland, Ohio
|
Male Switch, 56, Rockwood, Tennessee
| | |
Male Submissive, 34, Boston, Massachusetts
|
Male Dominant, 30, spring hill, Florida
|
Male Submissive, 46, New York
|
Male Switch, 38, Birmingham
| | |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|