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	Random friend requests will be deleted out of hand. Get to know me first! I know... it should be blindingly obvious, shouldn't it? So why do people do it? And I know that those who do that won't have read this far anyway... I need to make it clear that I am female because that is how I identify and that the fact that I am a trans woman rather than a cis woman is due to an accident of birth. I'm post-op too, so if you're after a 'chick with a dick', you missed that particular boat, sorry! If given the choice, I would describe my sexuality as 'pansexual', but I suppose 'bi' will have to do for now. That said, I have a very strong preference for people who are female identified and only very rarely feel any connection with cis men - though I do have an inexplicable fascination with cock, so if you play your cards right guys, it's highly likely I'll be up for spur-of-the-moment casual sex and am more likely to be interested if you share or can help with one of my more 'taboo' desires (I follow a path in which the 'forbidden' is celebrated). And I'm after REAL meets, only interested in online contact as an initial filter and as a preliminary to getting it on, so unless you're within a reasonable distance or prepared to travel to meet me... don't bother if all you're after is an online hookup or fap material. Though I describe myself as a Switch, I mostly lean toward the Dominant side, with a somewhat sadistic streak. I may occasionally become submissive for someone who finds and pushes the right buttons (in the right order, with the correct degree of pressure) but it's been quite a while since that last happened and it might just have been 'a phase'...

Another classic example of male entitlement/manbaby whinging today. He messages me, asking what I like doing. He is, so he claims, a Dom. I check his profile; he's looking for a l-t live-in sub (something I have zero interest in being). He also has a long list of CS members who he claims are 'fakes' (apparently on the basis that they've blown him off - not at all the same thing as 'blown him', for anyone who might need that pointing out). Now such lists are a clear breach of ToS, but more than that, they speak volumes about those who write them - entitled manbabies who can't take rejection, but more than that, abusive personalities. Such lists represent huge red flags of the sort that you ignore at your peril.

I replied, politely pointing out that (a) I'm probably not what he's looking for and (b) he's definitely not someone I could be interested in. I didn't dwell overmuch - after all, any sort of response was way more than he was entitled to expect.

And surprise, surprise! He writes back, calling me a 'fake' and blathering on about 'subs who are openly aggressive'... well, if he had read my profile, as he claimed (but I know he didn't; I've already told him how I know, but he seems not to have taken that in either, lol) then he'd have known I'm no sub to begin with... and now he's gone and got himself reported for a ToS violation too!

Male subs/slaves - please don't bother messaging me, I'm not interested, you do nothing for me. Thanks.

For fuck's sake! They're all crawling out of the woodwork today, aren't they? All those sad wannabe 'Doms' trying to issue 'commands' straight off the bat, then getting all defensive when they get told where to go...

So it's my birthday tomorrow and, horny bitch that I am, I'd like to celebrate with a complete weekend of debauchery. If you fancy getting involved... any gender, any age, let me know! I'm in Ampthill, Bedfordshire so you'll have to be able to get there...

I have no plans for NYE!!! It's tomorrow and I'm open to suggestions, preferably involving complete debauchery...

What is it with fucking male entitlement? I get a message, I look at his profile. It's late and I'm tired and to be honest I'm not all that impressed. Maybe if I bumped into him at an event somewhere and things went ok, I might have a one-off play. Or if he seemed like booty call material for when I'm horny, that might be an option. But from what he's said and from his profile, he doesn't seem to quite fit that. I'm not sure I want to say "thanks but no thanks" (can be risky with the male entitlement thing, some of them don't seem to like or understand 'no thanks' - I've had several kick off at me or just get whiny when I've said that) or if he's someone I might briefly chat to, so I can make up my mind. But it's late and I'm tired, so I decide to sleep on it...

And this morning? I have a message from him complaining that I've looked at his profile but not replied. I mean, what the absolute fuck? Here's news... and here's your reply if you're reading this... just because you send me a message in no way entitles you to any form of response, get it? Yes, I AM permitted to ignore you and if your male ego can't handle that, well tough titty.

While I'm on this soapbox, I'll mention the other male fuckwit calling himself a Dom, who sent me a very brief message yesterday, that ended with the words "tell me"... like you're in a position to give ME commands? Sorry chummy, but there's no bigger turn off than having some prick pop up thinking he can get me to obey him by simply issuing a command right off the bat. You're going to have to work at it a LOT harder than that!

Colonoscopy coming up on Friday morning. Have to spend tomorrow prepping, which means 2 packs of super power laxative. Going to have the cleanest arse in Bedfordshire!

Exactly a week ago, I found myself in a predicament. I'd been talking for some time previously with a submissive woman who is one half of a father/daughter incestuous relationship who hold regular parties in the UK Midlands. And who I first began talking to on here (she has more than one account here). We got on very well it seemed. She was keen to meet me and pretty much begged me to go and spend a week with them as they were looking for someone to be part of the family and to help out with the parties.

I agreed to go and visit, so I could see if we got on well enough and anyway I figured there'd be lots of opportunity for fun, what with two parties planned that week and a dogging site nearby as well. We talked a lot, exchanged lots of pics. Anyway, last Monday the day came. I packed my most revealing outfits, a couple of toys and very little else, and headed off on the train. The journey became a nightmare, with trains delayed and connections missed, so took about double the time it should have done.

We kept in touch throughout though and sure enough, they collected me from their nearest station as arranged. We drove a couple of miles and they suggested stopping at a pub for something to eat. We parked up, went inside, ordered food and sat there talking while we waited for it to be served. Then, with no indication anything was amiss, events took a wierd and unexpected turn. First, she excused herself and headed to the loo. Then, he broke off in mid conversation, pointed to the table number and said "Oh, I think I gave the wrong table number, I'll just go and check" then headed off toward the bar. Two minutes later, the food arrived and I was just wondering whether to wait for them or just start eating, when some guy appeared with my suitcase, said "Guy outside said this is for table 39, would that be right?" put it down and left. I got up, went to the door and checked... and sure enough, their car had gone.

I checked with the staff and found they'd paid for the meals, two of which they'd abandoned in their hurry to dump me. I ate mine, then called a cab and returned to the station, only to find that I'd just missed the last train that evening with connections that would have got me home that night. So I wound up staying the night in the local Travelodge, who fortunately had just one room vacant when I turned up at reception. So, an expensive and frustrating lesson for me, and I'm still wondering what their problem was.

Should have added to that last one... guys, if you contact me, please state clearly which of those two categories you're offering under. If you don't, there's a high likelihood I'll just ignore you.

If you're male and outside the UK I'll ignore you, unless you make it clear that you're able to travel.

I haven't written anything here for ages, but here goes.

I still like women by far the best, I can relate in so many ways better than I can with men. However, I do have a thing for cock and as a follower of Lilith I also have some other interests leaning toward the taboo side of things... so I'm interested in men who can offer either of the following:

1. A casual NSA fuck, preferably outdoors (for this, you really need to be fairly close to me or able to get here).
2. Able to provide the means, or connect easily to the means for furthering one or more of those other interests...

Think I've gone off men again, so not really looking for one. Not particularly looking for anyone who's a 'D' type in fact...

Why is it that people just stop communicating after you initially get on really well and they've been really keen to move things on... either to a different communication medium or even talked positively about wanting to meet... and where they've been the one to initiate something outside of here?

It puzzles me, it annoys me, it worries me. I wonder if it was my fault, something I'd said or done. I wonder if I've perhaps given too many of my details too early to someone who I should not have given them to. And it's rude! I would either not respond in the first place, or say something like "no, sorry, but you're not for me, or at least not in that way", or if the conversation has come to a natural break or conclusion, then things get left there, but if you've been talking and it's been going really well, why then just stop responding even after the other party's asked if things are ok. "yes thanks, but I've changed my mind" doesn't cost anything, does it?

At present, i have no wish to have new approaches from men, as i've met someone here who has affected me quite profoundly and i want to see how that develops without too much distraction. i remain open to considering friendships and possible play opportunities with female identified people.

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