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thefirewalker

Summary: I'm a bad boy with a rough exterior and a heart of gold. I love being with people and having fun. I've been to lots of cool places like New Zealand, Japan, Russia, most of Europe and elsewhere. I am a kind person who can be aggressive when I need to be, yet I'm laid back and sincere. I value my friendships. I have lots of energy and am a very strong person. I'm honest so I'll tell you I have some negative traits - don't we all? I think the key thing to do is understand that side and seek a balance.

Who I'd like to meet: I'm interested in women who are intelligent, attractive, happy, enjoy travel and the finer things in life, are patient, "highly adventurous" sexually and open to new things, women with some emotional maturity, age isn't too critical, in good shape, did I mention "hot"? - LOL - well - that's not all that crucial either, but, hey, I am a guy after all! I definitely do want someone who has control over her own life and is not just looking for someone to support her. I know that sounds bad, but I want to find someone who has her act together, as it were, and is looking for the same.

What I respect (some serious stuff here):
Honesty even when it hurts. I have no use for those who lie or are not genuine. All of us are imperfect. All of us do things we wish we had not. That is life. But learning from these things is key to me.

Brilliance / intelligence without arrogance. Insatiable curriosity. The joy of learning something new and the drive to accept nothing but the best from one's self (that doesn't mean I always live up to this, but it's important to me nonetheless).

Creativity - the essense of life and the source of what drives mankind forward - likely the only hope we have of not destroying ourselves.

The courage to stand up for what you believe in. Especially true when your peers, friends and those you respect do not support you.

Choosing the right friends. Popularity is meaningless and is a crutch for the weak. The true value of a person is told by his/her soul and how far they will go to be loyal to your friendship. I would die for my true friends if needs be. Such bonds are for life and do not diminish with time or lack of contact.
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Favorite Movies/Video:
On the sexual side:
I like BDSM/fetish heterosexual videos, such as heavy ballbusting, heavy BDSM, male sub with serious CBT, or female subs, caning, etc.  I enjoy the artistic eroticizing of pain, but it has to be obvious all parties are really into it.  Non-consensual depictions/fantasies are a real turn off for me.  It is the selfless giving of one's self that turns me on.

From a vanilla perspective, well, I'm a guy.  So I like action movies, science fiction, good dramas, Shakespeare, many comedies except when they're just too painful/stupid to watch, etc.  Here are some examples of mostly more recent titles I enjoy
X-Men 2, Bourne Supremacy, Mr & Mrs Smith, most Clint Eastwood titles including the classic spaghetti westerns, True Lies, Heartbreakers, Phantom of the Opera (the new musical), most James Bond movies, Star Trek: First Contact, Vendetta, Saving Private Ryan (but I don't know if I can ever watch it again as it was so emotionally disturbing - my father was on Omaha beach that day, so this one makes me cry a lot),..

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My heroes include: 

Julius Caesar, Einstein, Leonardo da Vince,
Ghandi, Henry V, Theodore Roosevelt, George Patton, Midori
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My Hobbies:  I like woodworking and have a full wood shop (for now anyway).  I've built many classical pieces of furniture including dining, end and coffee tables, armoires, etc.  I enjoy sharing the life force in the wood and uncovering the magical things its raw form conceals. 

I enjoy motorcycling.  I'm an experienced rider, and I currently have a 2004 Harley Davidson Fatboy with lots of modifications (see the photo).  It relaxes me.

I enjoy drawing.  I'm trying to teach myself to draw people now. I do a good job on objects.  I find it challenging and fun.  I'd also like to learn how to paint - where's the time for that though!!?