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Hetero Male Dominant, 51,  Evansville, Indiana
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Labels are helpful but insufficient. I am that which exists. These are my protocols. 1 Email. 2 Phone. 3 Meet in person. I do not chat.... I do not have time for it.... I will not send money.
I am an intellectual,realist,dreamer,Buddhist,artist,poet,58 year old Caucasian of native American/Irish/German descent in good shape, financially, emotionally stable. Any questions?












 Dominant Male



 5' 10"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

 Lives For:

 Intellectual Discourse


 Art Galleries







 Breast Play

 You wearing my collar

 Being Massaged

 Massage (Giving)


 Science Fiction

 Body Art











 Paranormal Phenomena






 Alternative Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave





 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales



 Martial Arts



 Blindfolding you


 Hair Pulling

 Placing you on a leash

 Masks (Wearing)

 Role Playing

 Spanking you


 Wax Play


 Online Auctions



 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics



 Political Activism

 Blue Grass

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music


 Modern Paganism




 Card Games



 Curious About:

 Foot Worship


 Masks on Partner

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Suspension Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation



 Erotic touch

 Fire Play

 Gas Masks

 Sensation Play

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Sensory Play

 TV News

 Opera Music



 Medical fetish play


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Journal Entries:
9/11/2017 1:04:41 PM
I have found a girl ....however..... I am still here to help those who need advice and have questions.

6/18/2017 9:29:41 AM
My princess has had much abuse as a child and now I am giving her that childhood she was deprived of back. She has turned her pain into pleasure....She has let go of her trauma....mostly. She's so positive.....She knows what is important.....She appreciates the little things.... I adore and admire her. She knows the secret of being happy...... It's being happy right here,right now!..... Because it could always be so much worse! So enjoy NOW! Because now is good.... Because later could be bad.....So very bad.

5/7/2017 1:06:31 PM
I have a princess girl now.....I am not seeking..... .... I am that which awaits my muse.

4/30/2017 5:29:41 AM
What others have described me as..... REAL Strong Powerful Well read Intelligent Mature Having depth Caring Daddy Protective Honest I have studied philosophy,religion and psychology.

4/27/2017 5:14:07 PM
Now I would like to express the main of the reasons my experience and research has told me of the source of submissiveness.

     1 Trauma in various degrees from childhood torture to separation anxiety.
        2 Daddy or mother issues .(see also separation issues)
           3 The more religious see it as biblical.
             4 some are genuinely wired to want to serve. It's biological and in their DNA.
                5 then there is the highly pressured individual in community and career life that seeks an                outlet/balance.
                        6 There are the ones who are not submissive at all but tell themselves that they are.

For instance I have met a few that want someone to come and fix them and their lives.
                           That's what self help and life coaching is for.
                            7  Some are homeless and/or lazy..... Simply wanting a place to stay.
                       (6 and 7  don't really count but I included them here.)

                        It could be a combination or more than one.
           There are more but these are the main ones.
 Interestingly,these "switch" or to say are applicable with Dom's.
 This does not count scammers......They are sociopathic greedy little flies.
             Which one are you?

4/24/2017 11:10:10 PM
Bow down before the one you serve...... you're going to get what you deserve....9 inch nails

4/24/2017 4:11:19 PM
........... I am patient as the mountain.

         Words....Just words......But words can be POWERFUL.

 Words have started Wars....
    Words have broken hearts.
      Words inspire.
         Words can make you fall in love.
      I've seen people fall in love in 20 minutes.....Of corresponding.....And are still together.

       I've seen people that have never met fall in love..... With words.


           It is Well documented that mind does not know the difference between fantasy and reality because in the end it's all a matter of perception.

     Come...... Let's play in the mind field.

4/24/2017 10:16:34 AM
If you're not interested in this LIFE style ......Then go back to sleep.
......OR.... come with me.... take my hand .....and let's be ....ALIVE.

When's the last time your heart truly beat?
                 Or are you too busy ......being DEAD?

Everything else will be static......

4/24/2017 10:12:00 AM

Who seeks The Seeker?
What Muse is the muse's?
Who ends what is started?
Who programs the programmer?

4/22/2017 8:33:10 AM
The human being has been falling in love with each other via snail mail for hundreds of years.
As long as the two are completely honest when they do finally meet that love will remain and even jump up to the next level.


Now...... Nothing has changed..... Except the medium.

If you do not believe this then you're free to do your own research.
I have done my research and I have my life experience.

If you were not aware of were merely ignorant..... Which is not a sin.
But if you were not aware of this and you made assumptions then you are arrogant and I do not abide by arrogance.
Quickness too a pitfall.
      I am that which will watch the arrogant fall over and over.

4/22/2017 8:26:46 AM
Yet even as I was this feral creature with my muse...... I would still fight God for my muse.
Whilst I was this Beast with my muse....... I would still write sonnets on the firmament with the Stars themselves for my muse.
While I was this primal thing with my muse ......I would still break the universe in half and lay it at the feet of my muse.
As I was an animal with my muse ........I would still punch a hole in reality to please my muse.

Eternity weeps in jealous fits when the bond so strong is beheld between my muse and I.

   I am that which is alive.

4/21/2017 1:45:59 AM
Muse - A woman — who is a source of artistic inspiration. In mythology, the Muses were nine goddesses who symbolized the arts and sciences.

4/20/2017 3:16:31 AM
 The song lyrics come to mind....

Sweet dreams are made of this
Who am I to disagree?
I travel the world
And the seven seas,
Everybody's looking for something.

Some of them want to use you
Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused.

How appropriate.......

4/17/2017 8:33:17 PM
To answer some inquiries.... I do not train wives.
I am here seeking her that which exists. 

4/17/2017 4:06:50 AM
Over the years I have seen so many.
  The good ones, the real ones, the common ones,the posers, the fakes, the tourists, the escapists, the Liars, the cheats, the friends,the evil ones, scammers the therapists and more.
   Every once in awhile......A long while these days.... I see one that's unique.
     One that inspires.
  She makes navigating through the others worth it.
   Often she and those around her may not know just how unique she is....
But I do......
      I am that which has seen much.

4/16/2017 9:33:29 AM
I do not abide by the extreme.

   The line between barrier breaking and trauma is very very fine.

      The extreme takes more than it gives.

I do not abide by arrogance...... Especially the "arrogance of the expert " and the "arrogance of youth."
      Arrogance of any kind is a pitfall.....A set up of crash and burn.

     I am that which is experienced.

4/15/2017 1:36:19 PM
If you are a scammer... or a coward ....I will figure you out very quickly .....but I won't tell you.
I will go along with your ruse until the very end......Weeks... months.
I am that which scams the scammers.

4/13/2017 7:47:00 PM
Be faithful to that which exists within yourself. " - Andre Gide 

4/13/2017 11:40:47 AM
    Most D's are not as D as they say......
      Most s's are not as s as they say.......
         I AM that which exists

4/10/2017 11:05:33 PM
I am the artist and you are the canvas.
       I am the seed and you are the soil.
              I am the poet and you are the paper.
                    It Is my role to  pull out of you that which exists and behold your blossoming.

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