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Male Switch, 23, Sydney
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Male Dominant, 23
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Female Submissive, 19, Orlando, Florida
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About ThatAsianDude
Nice to see the site back up and running under a new name. Will likely not do much at all with the profile, but such is life.
I enjoy intelligent dialogue and seek a submissive with enough of a mind of her own that she is able to get by on a daily basis. While the appeal of someone who wishes to be controlled in all of their actions sounds appealing to many, I'd rather have a relationship with someone rather than a relationship with something equivalent to an animal or a thing. For the latter, I can purchase a fish or a dog or other household pet.
I think of the lifestyle and much of the things related to BDSM as an adventure in trust and acceptance. While the public tends to view anything that can be labelled as BDSM as "taboo" and "wrong" I think that, overall, the entire experience should be something that two consenting individuals are able to find a common ground and be able to maintain enough back-and-forth that the relationship isn't all about the submissive being controlled and bossed around on a daily basis. Yes, there will be moments where a dominant must take control, but at the same time, there should be enough understanding an enough of a relationship dynamic that the submissive isn't reduced to a doormat. |
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