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tharae

Male Dominant, 51, melbourne, Florida
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tharae - Female Submissive, Brisbane | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About tharae

* i am submissive
* i am not bi-sexual
* i am inexperienced
* i am not interested in domestic servitude only
* whilst i believe everyone is entitled to their own 'thing', i cannot get my head around anyone being a switch, so if you are one, please do not bother sending me mail and expect me to fall at your feet simply because you are currently identifying as a Dom
* in some ways i have been told i am naive
BUT
i am not an idiot and do not appreciate being taken for one because of my inexperience
SO
if you are married
interested only in cyber
are not interested or cant hold an intelligent conversation
expect me to relocate even though my profile says i cant
expect me to make financial sacrifices to please you that will have adverse affects on me

cant for one reason or another be honest and truthful in what you say


i never thought i would come across so many who think that being a submissive means they can take you for a ride, and not once ever did i think i would have to put any of the above in my profile, unfortunately this is one aspect of where i WAS naive

my submissive experiences have so far been only online, i have primarily been roleplaying in the gorean enviroment, i am not a pain slut or a masochist, i have learned there are shades of grey in all BDsM play but am definately not into anything extreme

ultimately i seek a 24/7 collar from a Master who is interested in more than just what joys/pleasures the flesh can offer, in other words one who shares my gorean mindset

well, its official, the world is full of lying jerks.........take care everyone....hope you do not get burned too often or too badly.........this place is history for me

am i truly amongst one of a very few who believe that communication is the building block of any relationship?......and are there really so many out there that fear being truthful?.....if you meet someone and they are not what you seek, why are you unable to tell them this, why do you simply disappear without another word?

there is a very good chance i will not respond to any messages, i am over this place and the bs that is spewed by so many, if you can't man up, then don't treat us like a fool by pretending you are something you are not

life is sweet, i have been lucky enough to catch the eye of a wonderful Dom and am looking forward to the journey we have embarked upon

The time has come for me to once again leave this place, thank You to all who have send kind messages to me.?

i believe i have found what i am seeking *smiles*
i feel i have to add this, i am not bi and as i have mentioned in my profile i am not a pain slut
i am not seeking an online Owner, i have been down that road, i thank everyone who has offered to train me online though
well, its been awhile since i have actually added anything to my journal, in fact, its been awhile since i actually even logged back in....but that is about to change.....*smiles*...

i can honestly say though, that the ratio of honest people to the ones that wish to only play mindgames has increased nicely

well, whilst i dont regret what i have learned these last few months, i definately do regret that it was done without honesty by the other party involved.

mind games can be very detrimental, i was told last night that it works both ways, that there are as many so called submissive players out there as there are pretend Masters/Dom's. 

well its been an interesting start, there is certainly a lot of definitions of 'Doms/Masters' out there. 

i wonder if someone can tell me what it is that makes Them insist a girl puts herself at risk financially to prove that she is serious.  i cannot relocate. 

on the upside i have conversed with several who have done nothing but help me try to understand what i will be facing, advice given to date by some has been invaluable....*smiles*....for that i thank You for it is You who keep me here holding onto hope


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