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About Terkim

I am a contradiction. I am an alpha submissive and a switch, I know that is confusing but please read on. I would estimate I'm 65% sub and 35% dom. That varies on the situation and dynamic of the relationship. In life I am determined, strong-willed, aggressive and pushy. I am in charge and don't suffer fools lightly. That is exactly why I am submissive. I deal with an enormous amount of responsibility and pressure daily, giving up control is therapeutic for me. Building a relationship where there is trust and I can more fully submit is hard, it takes time and lots of communication. I will always try to be polite and a gentleman, but I will not bow down and submit (or go into dom mode) the minute I meet someone. Now you are asking, how does an alpha submissive serve? I always listen to my domme and serve with her best interests at heart. That is not limited to the bedroom, her overall happiness and well being is important to me. Finding the line between being a "nice guy" and a sub is blurry for me. I will not hesitate to bring out the alpha man in me to protect her or anyone I care about. It can be confusing (my dommes have forgotten I was their sub at times) and some dommes have commented that they didn't believe I was submissive. People who got to know me came to understand that I submissive, but I have a backbone and am protective of the people I care about. The caring part is more obvious to those that I am dom to (sometimes the same people sometimes not). In other words; I am all over the place but if you fuck with people I care about you will have to deal with me.
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