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Male Dominant, 45, Haarlem
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Male Dominant, 42, Bkk
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Female Submissive, 34, England, UK
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About TenseSilence
It's been good getting back to school, I see opportunities as being on the increase at least professionally. I may not have the world by the tail just yet but it's coming.
Before I get into the numerical info I'd rather give a quick glimpse into who I am as a man. Lately I've come across some quotes that ring true to me, so here goes.
"Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts." Winston Churchill
This next one hit me like a ton of bricks, and speaks to who I am at the core.
"War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling is much worse. The person who has nothing for which he is willing to fight , nothing which is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature, and has no chance of being free unless made or kept so by the exertions of better Men than himself." John Stuart Mill ( English economist and philosopher) (It should be noted that just because this quote mentions the word moral that it is taken by me in the greater sense as those things to which should be clung as valuable and honorable)
I am a protector and a sadist of sorts. I love the artwork of the female form and the wonder of the human mind. Show me your body and I'll look, show me who you are and you have my attention, for better or worse.
I am happily married, have been so for 7 years now. I will not be swayed from my commitment to her. She is vanilla and is aware I am looking for a submissive. I am looking for a person who is fully open emotionally and able to feel with the depth due a healthy person. I require a person who is strong. Strong enough to open her weaknesses to me and know that I can not harm her, someone with an identity and is also aware of when expressing it is beneficial. Someone with whom I share a primal connection. I want a person who understands the depth that real communication brings, who is not afraid to answer questions in full detail.
I am back in school now so if I don't find a person that is all well and good but I would rather be getting to know that right person.
Edit: You may not be impressed by the fact that I am married and looking for a submissive but the true strength of a relationship is defined by its elastic quality. It is in the lengths to which a person can grow to allow needs to be met one for the other that the ability to see in real practice that love is truly a verb. It works for us, it's not always easy, but in trial the depth of our connection has been made evident. If that insults some people's delicate sense of right and wrong I send you on with best wishes and a recommendation that you look into why.
I give no person or entity the right to use any of my personal information or profile for study, data or any other use outside the specific purpose of one person getting to know another.
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