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About Tenkaippin
My self-summary
A nerd looking for other nerds to talk about and do nerdy things with.
I am a bit asocial but with the right people I can talk endlessly. I used to ire to be a writer and sometimes it shows when I talk in text.
I recently left the Coast Guard after six years which is where the pictures in fancy green clothes come from. I worked in the intel field, which is a fancy way of saying I googled sh*t for a living. I was the least military person in the military. Im pacifistic, I hate authority, I hate uncomfortable clothes, not a big fan of guns. I joined the USCG because I thought Id be able to save some lives, build discipline, gain interpersonal skills and make decent money in the process. None of those things turned out to be true, so when my contract was up I bailed.
Now Im doing odd jobs and selling video game accounts to pay bills and feed my cat.
Gaming is my main hobby, but just about any pursuit that could be put under the label of nerdy is something I am probably at least marginally into. Science, science fiction, history, fantasy, anime, magic, superpowers, binge watching movies and TV series are all things that spark my interest.
I interject humor into most discussions no matter how serious. I like to share content and have content shared with me, be it memes, youtube videos or suggestions of what series to watch.
If money were no concern, this is what I would be doing
Playing video games.
My worst quality
I have the double-edged sword that is honesty. I am upfront about who I am, what Im feeling, what Im thinking. Sometimes it doesnt go over too well. The rest of this section will be too honest and scare off most readers. While ultimately I want love in my life, Im also lacking in friends and decent conversation. If these things make you not want to date me, thats fine, we could still chat.
Addicted to escapism. I prefer virtual worlds to the real ones. Escapism however is my only addiction, so thats something.
Societal and social norms dont really interest me. I hate forced small talk, ality and having to worry about what other people think. I hate groups, tribalism, forcing yourself into a box and hanging with particular cliques.
Surface things are of little value to me. Looks, clothes, are just not something I concern myself with. I will with no shame walk around in public with messy hair in pajama pants.
Money has never been something I live in pursuit of. I care about paying bills and feeding my cat, but I dont live for wealth.
My mom died a few years ago and she was my best friend and only remaining close family member. Im prone to being bummed the **** out about it if I dwell on it. In general I have a lack of closeness with my family and find myself increasingly distant from my friends as the years go on. So Im a bit lonely and sad, I usually cover up the sadness with humor, but sometimes it eats away at me.
My dad has had multiple heart attacks, a stroke and a myriad of other health issues. He was never there for me when I was a kid, but I decided to be there for him and moved in with him to help take care of him. I spent all my adult life living alone, Im not an incapable man-child mooching off my parents, but I do currently live with my dad and probably will until he dies. (At the rate hes going, that could be sooner rather than later.)
My golden rule
Fall seven times, stand up eight.
The last show I binged
Money Heist. It was about heisting money.
On a typical Friday night I am
Batman.
The most private thing Im willing to admit
I do the twitch and youtube things, unsuccessfully.
You should message me if
You are a nerd. Preferably one with a sense of humor and conversation skills. |
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