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tenderlust

tenderworshiper
Male Submissive, 44, Boston, Massachusetts
Male Dominant, 37
Female Submissive, 42, Phoenix, Arizona
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About tenderlust

Love me tender...take me hard.

...not everyone, only one.

I have studied Dominance and submission long enough to understand the mind of a self proclaimed dom and the heart of a naturally Dominant Man....and I'm wise enough to discern the difference.

As a woman I have enough experience with men in general to realize a lie is not an excuse or justification for deceitful actions...it is simply a lie; and in my line of work I'm also trained to know a lie when I hear one. When a man desires a woman....he is never too busy to let her know he is thinking about her and will find a way to be with her. As soon as he starts to pull away and uses excuses for his absence, I know what he is truly about.

I need not be trained....I'm a true woman, I understand my submission. My submission is offered, not demanded of me. A Dominant Man understands that and nurtures it. Should a conflict arise, a true Dominant Man knows how to lead his woman through it, he does not run from it or place barriers before it. It takes a strong woman to offer her submission...it takes a stronger Man to hold it.

As men expect women to care for themselves and be physically pleasing...so do I expect a man to maintain a healthy lifestyle and be within reasonable physical shape.

If you think a few cocktails means you drink a 6 pack in an hour, or any such association to alcohol on a regular basis; if you need to exist on pain killers or any other sort of "self-medication; if you feel a need to put more effort into a gym routine than a relationship; if you believe your way is the only way; if you do not understand that there is a Greater Existence above your ego; or if you spend more time with your shrink than you do with your woman....then we do not have anything in common and I wish you the best in your search...

I am not a sub, I am a submissive woman...there is a difference.

If you express desire in "me" but then spend hours here seeking others, then it's not my submission you need.

I will not involve myself with married men or in long distance online relationships. I will communicate with those of distance, but you will not hold my submission or take control of me in any manner via long distance.

I do not have interest in a dom, one who seeks bi subs or who seeks couples and sub males. True Dominant Men only need contact me.

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