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About tekslave
Hello to all of the Dommes of CollarSpace. I am new here but not exactly new to the BDSM lifestyle.
Due to recent encounters with various persons I feel the need to put this here. While in the course of an ongoing BDSM Domme-subslave relationship I know there may be some level of financial control, but until that is established I WILL NOT send money to anybody ESPECIALLY without at least meeting them. I am sorry I had to put this here but there are just way to many scam artists on sites like this. In that same vein, I am not looking to submit online unless it is part of an ongoing in-person relationship.
A bit about me Im a 37 year old submissiveslave male in DuPage county in the tech industry. I am not perfect and will never claim to be. Im a non-smoker, non-drug user, non-420 user (at least until it becomes truly legalized at least I am curious about it just with drug tests and all they tend to frown upon it and I do want to keep my job and future job possibilities open), but do enjoy a good drink but to enjoy not overdo it (esp craft beerscraft liquors).
As for my potential future Dommethe drug420 (medical 420 w card OK but case dependent) side is sort of a hard limit due to the legalities around it, Rx drugs are excepted as those one is authorized to take, and ideally a non-smoker (vapingecig ok but case dependent). Looking for somebody who is relatively close to me, as I have found while we may have the best of intentions longer distance relationships tend not to work, the closer the better but can see within a 2-3 hour drive especially for longer term meetings (weekendweek-long visits). Also somebody who is definitely in the US legally preferably from the states of (in no particular order) Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Michigan, and Wisconsin which all happen to be within the 2-3 hour driving range.
I live on my own and am not looking to have anybody take care of me financially or otherwise, I am simply looking for one to take control over various aspects of my life both BDSM and otherwise, especially if in a slavery type roll. On that, I am not specifically looking to relocate but not opposed to it under the right circumstance with the right personpeople.
As for what I am looking for I am primarily looking for a Domme or Femdomme lead couple (guys if I see somebody I am interested in I will contact you). My profile lists that I am straight because there is no listing for bi-curious which I more relate to as I have never been with a male sexually so I cant say otherwise. I am open to it however but I am much more selective when it comes to men than I am with women. I consider myself near-no limits while I am relatively inexperienced to a lot of people here I do have some experience but have a whole lot much more to try to experience, so barring anything illegal, scat, activities that will (not necessarily can) lead to serious injury or death, and a few other things as I like and try to keep my options open with things.
I know a lot of the so-called slaves and submissive on this and other sites seem to make their personal sexual gratification a priority. With me while of course I do seek that (I am a guy after all), I seek the pleasure of my future Mistress(es) above mine. While I do hope I am allowed the gift of pleasureorgasm, I know I am not guaranteed it and if granted the method or circumstances of it. I really didnt want to put this paragraph in but it seems to me that I should, sort of a perverse round-about logic. I have realized that fact for a long time, just through my searches through the years I have not found the Mistress that has been able to take the control I seek and in a way need.
Hopefully that wasnt to long or to short but just the right length for a profile. I look forward to hearing from you soon. Also for professional reasons I am keeping my picture off of the site but I do have some to send, however no nudescrotch-shots (yes yes I know very disappointing right?) or the like.
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PSA journal posting here: As I browse the site I can not help but notice a lot of pictures with incorrect orientations, some may chalk it up to incompetence but I don't.
It is a known issue that on various phones both Android and iPhone if you rotate the picture on the phone it doesn't always rotate the picture but sets some flags on the picture indicating which way to rotate the picture that the viewing software then takes into account. However not all viewing software is aware of that so the pictures come out pointing the wrong direction, such as often happens on this site.
Easy fix is to rotate the picture on a computer: In Windows can do it either with the free MS Paint that has been included with every computer for over 25 years, with Windows 7 and newer can do it right from Windows Explorer by simply right clicking on the picture and selecting "Rotate right" or "Rotate left", or any number of other image editing software both paid and free. I am sure on Apple machines there is an easy way to do it but being I do not use one I have no idea what exact software may be needed.
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Is there anybody here looking for an actual relationship, or is CS only an advertising space for prodommes/findommes now? |
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Thank you to all that have been writing and viewing my profile, it is very appreciated
However it seems many of those that are writing are from outside of the area that I am looking in. I am looking for people withing probably 2-3 hours of myself which would mean I am looking for people in central and northern Illinois (Chicago area (Cook county and the collar counties) and 815 area code ideally), southern to central Wisconsin, northern and central Indiana, southwest Michigan (St Joseph to Kalamazoo), and eastern Iowa (Davenport/Rock Island area) for practical purposes.
Though while the farther away one is I am generally less interested, as it will limit the times we can meet, for the right person the travel will be worth it.
Good luck in your search, I look forward to meeting you. |
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