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About tbonecorel
A few things people have pointed out about me: I take long showers (at least half an hour), and I take even longer to decide what to wear. I speak softly, and yes, on occasion I do carry a big stick. I'm quite random, often times shifting from one thought to a completely unrelated thought with no warning. Or sometimes I just say something random in the middle of a conversation. Oh, and I'm a total rope slut.....
I am a novice/hobbyist toymaker. Most of the toys I've made so far are for myself. I'm learning how to braid, and I think I'm doing pretty good at it.
I'm a very shy person, and very quiet, until I get to know you. At public events you may only see me in the background. I'm still very new to the public scene and still learning, and always growing a little bit more comfortable with each time out. And on my second glance at what I've just written, it seems a little bit..scattered...oh well, now you know how my brain works. I'm a very eccentric kind of person. I also love to play guitar...music is probably my main passion in life. I'm a WOMAN...I might not be born that way but I am a woman now and I would like to be treated as such. If someone presents themselves as a woman, they are very feminine in nature...and have even gone through all the hassle of dressing sexy and putting on makeup...why oh why would you pay them the great disrespect of addressing them as "he" or "sir?" I just don't understand this...because you'd never even consider doing it to someone who was born a woman. If you can't accept me as the woman I am then...I don't have time for you.
Rant Finished
~Goes back to my circle of friends and gives huggles and mushies~
Now, a little bit about what I'm looking for? Not necessarily anything serious at this time. I'm open to the possibility of a relationship, but I won't put myself in a situation again where I cannot play with whom I choose to play with. I want someone who makes my spine tingle when they speak and inspires only one possible answer. I'll let you figure out what that answer is. If you think you can inspire that sort of effect, then please feel free to send me a message. I'll always answer back, even if I'm not interested. |
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I've kind of dropped off the Collarme website since early this year, as I discovered a better venue to meet people...I've been actively involved in the local scene for about 7 or 8 months now, and I can't help but wonder...why do I never see any of the faces from Collarme at the events??? Seriously...if you want a chance to get to know people and meet potential subs/doms, then that's probably the best way to do it. Yeah, it's gonna cost you some time, and maybe some money, but in the end it could prove to be well worth it. I know there's a lot of people who aren't "into" the scene. But that's the beautiful thing about the scene, it's so diverse. There's a little bit of EVERYTHING. Well perhaps I should just put it this way. I try to go to at least two events a month...so if you're interested in me, then ask me what they are and how to get on the lists. And yes, I'm "looking" again.. |
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What am I feeling right now?? What's running through my head?? It is regrettable that I write this, because I had high hopes for this place.? I am tired of? the players contacting me.? I'm serious about the reasons I am here, why does it seem like nobody else can be?? I won't travel to meet anyone else unless they just happen to show up at the same party I am at, or we've taken extensive time getting to know one another via other communication methods first.? I don't have the time or money to waste.? From today on, I am no longer actively searching on Collarme.? I will reply to messages that are sent, but I will no longer be the one who initiates contact.
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Sadly, I must write this.? YES, I am a submissive!? If you don't think I am then you just haven't taken the time to get to know me.? But aren't submissives allowed to have some ground rules too?? Here are mine.? If you are going to contact me:
Please, act smart.? Don't type to me with txt speak.? "what r u doing".? I value correct grammar.? It doesn't have to be perfect, but you folks who use this stuff sound like you are 12 years old.
Please, please, don't let the first thing you send to me be "show me your webcam" or something like that.
NEVER accuse me of being "Fake" or "not a true submissive."? YOU have not shown me that you are a true dominant but I have not questioned you, have I?
Don't think that the term "Dominant" gives you a free ticket to be an asshole.
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All good things must come to an end, or so it seems.? I guess I am back on the market, not that there is much of a market here.? Sometimes one starts to wonder if there really is that one who is right for them.? Is there such a thing as a perfect match?? I used to think so, but now I am beginning to doubt.
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Is it too much to ask of someone to reply to messages if I send them?? Even if it's just a "Thanks for writing, but we are interested in someone else."?? I answer every message I receive, even if it's from someone who's blatantly being a douche bag.? My response to them may not always be the most pleasant one of course, but I'm always honest.? To those of you who have and are replying to my messages, I thank you.? Even those of you who have made it clear that I am not what you are seeking, and yet still maintain friendly chatter back and forth, you still help light my day up a bit.
-Amber
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Interesting quote of the day, from a fictional piece of work, yet I think it applies here.
I did not want polite love. I wanted to know that I was in the hands of a man who was capable of being excited, and who I excited, who found me truly marvelous, to whose fury of power I appeared whose fierce and voracious appetites I triggered. I wanted to be in the arms of a true man. I did not want to be possibly mistaken about whether I had been had or not. I did not want to be touched as though I might break. I did not wish to be in danger of drowsing off during the making of love. I wanted him to own and master me, and whip me if I was not pleasing."
Dancer of Gor, page 250
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As I wait, I think about the potential.? Blissful thoughts and images fill my mind of the most perfect submission that can be had.? Oh what joy that would fill the heart of a girl, giving of herself so fully and freely.? The feelings that no words can describe and no actions can fully portray the magnitude of.? If only I were able to describe it...
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So, all is not hopeless.? I've already met a couple nice people here.? (Met as in spoke to, not actually met in person.)? You have shown me that not everyone is just here for sex or bondage.? The most profound submission requires no physical bondage, as one is bound by their Master's will, out of love and willing submission. How I long to find someone who I can freely give this to.
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