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About tbgc
After being inactive for a while on the website and reading some profiles over the time, I know the way I conceive BDSM differs from most of the members here. However, I am still writing this mainly for my personal amusement.
So, why do we differ? I cannot be a dom without being a person, which I definitely not regret and conversely I cant be a person without being a dom, which is a little trickier. Id rather have a conversation with you than making you a lecture, but here Ill have to explain myself a lot to be somehow understandable. Anyway, what I meant was that domination being a part of myself I cant go all the way to becoming your master without actually mastering the mechanics of your mind and body as a person -what you like (and please abstain yourself on saying that it doesnt matter, because if you want to be forced to do things you dont like you actually like the fact of being forced, and that in a particular way that is unique to yourself), what you respond to, the intensity of those responses... Because of that, I do respect the word master -as well as slave- and reserve them to a stage in which two (or more) partners have attained such a high degree of connection, and who directed their relation towards an exchange of power.
That being said, I can -and will naturally tend to- be dominant towards you if the connection between us is right, because thats my way of being myself. But in order to enjoy BDSM and be as dominant andor sadistic as it well fits us, we must be on the same page without being pessimistic, I am aware that no partner is going to be a fit to every one of my desires, and that is what makes people so interesting and diverse.
Until now, I have experience as a rigger, sadist, dominant and brat-tamer, I am also very sexual regarding BDSM and highly experimentalist. I love being with submissives who wont let themselves handle in a playful way and people who could be submissive to me and dominant to another partner, but Im totally open to those who dont fit in that deion if the connection feels right.
If youve read all through until here, you should know that Im open to talk with anyone, even if you dont share the ideas Ive expressed up here, and that is by pure curiosity of mine. However, you shouldnt expect me to act as a dominant at first in order to get to know each other freely.
PS English is definitely not the only language we can communicate in. |
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