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About taphophile
taphophilia: a love of funerals, graves, & cemeteries
I like to play.I do not have a webcam. Not interested in married men looking for "some fun"..go fuck your wife, assholes.I'm new to this but very open minded. I am here to develop something more satisfying & beneficial to my needs.
I am strong because I am weak.
I am beautiful because I know my flaws.
I am a lover because I am a fighter.
I am fearless because I have been afraid.
I am wise because I have been foolish.
...And I can laugh because I have known sadness.
I am looking for RT-LT, not an online based D/s "relationship"
Submission is GIVEN, not TAKEN.
I will not tolerate any name calling or verbal abuse-to do so will get you blocked from my profile.
I don't want to be humiliated, abused, or treated like dirt.
I do want to be cuddled, appreciated, & accepted--even though I am a beginner I am willing to learn.
I like curvy women, & men with some meat on their bones..
( scrawny/over muscled people need NOT message me. I'm NOT interested.)
I have yahooIM & AIM
I don't freely give them out, you've got to earn them.
I am drug free, drama free, loyal, std-FREE, hell--I even shower on a daily basis!!
I dress like a tom-boy (not really into dresses/skirts--more like jeans/cutoffs & a band t-shirt)
I'm very into the Psychobilly/Rockabilly Music Scene & Culture, I have many tattoos & piercings.
I absolutely love animals, vegetarian food, & rich/bold coffee.
I'm a little on the chubby side. (but I'm working on my self image)
:)
I won't send you $ or gifts. I won't call you master/mistress. I won't let you degrade me.
I will share myself with you. I will let you teach me what pleases you (so long as you are considerate of my pleasure too.)
I consider myself "switch" because I am not fully aware of my likes/dislikes-- I need the right person to help me along the way & show me what it is to be free.
Thanks for Reading.
xoxo
WARNING: Any and all
institutions and/or individuals using this site or its associated sites
for projects or personal use - You do not have permission from me to use
any part of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current
and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my
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deactivating my account.
don't have time for this right now.
life is too stressful.
my apologies.
xoxo
Taphophile
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DEFINITION OF SWITCH: In BDSM, a switch is someone who participates in SM activities as both a top and a bottom, or possibly in D/sDom
and a sub.
A switch will be the top on some occasions and the bottom on other
occasions, not necessarily with the same partner. Switching within a scene, or even during a session is very rare.
activities as both a Switches are quite common; a German study
of 143 people found that 24% of people in BDSM switched. There is
nothing new about switching; it is mentioned by the Marquis de Sade.
A switch may be in a relationship with someone of the same
primary BDSM orientation (two dominants, say), so switching provides
each partner with an opportunity to realise his or her unsatisfied BDSM
needs with others. When switching with the same partner, the reason my
be based on mood, desire or the scene being played.
A person's preferences can change during his or her life. This
is notable with Old Guard SM where it is common to
believe that "the best (or only) Doms were formerly subs," with a
ritualised progress from masochist to sadist inevitably involving being a
switch in between. The opposite happens also, however, especially with
Doms or Dommes becoming subs.
A person who engages in self-bondage can be viewed
as taking both roles simultaneously.
The attitude toward switches can vary depending upon group or
Community. In some, switching is more frequent and accepted, in others
people can have problems with switches, possibly because they fear that
which is not easily labelled or identified, or they see switches as too
'weak' to commit to a role.
A category of persons who share "switch" characteristics but do
not identify themselves as "switch" are also known as omniviant http://www.londonfetishscene.com/wipi/index.php/Switch
Notice, that NOWHERE does it say "bitch" "cunt" or "slut" think twice before you send me an email with ANY of those words included. I will block you & delete the message.
Grow the FUCK up, folks. xoxo
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NO. No. No. no. I am NOT ok with being called a bitch. Just because you're a "dom" doesn't mean that you have to be disrespectful. Yes, I am aware that SOME people like that form of degradation, I am NOT one of them. If I want to be called names, believe that I will ask you to. Until then,? fuck off. I am not here for your amusement, I am here for myself. I am here to learn & explore. If you feel the driving need to "OWN" something, go buy a dog. bastards.
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I want to wear a corset.
I want to be held down and denied release.
I want to be praised when I'm good & punished when I'm bad.
I want to act out (or be taken by surprise) a rape fantasy while being blindfolded.
I want a teacher.
I want to be tied up & teased.
...quite an interesting (albeit boring/lame) list, I've been awake too long.
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day 2: whoa, easy there! so many exciting things & people I've talked to within the last 24 hours. I have been convinced, however, that CM is more like the "myspace" of the BDSM community. That being said, I have activated account on another site (same SN, taphophile), which seems to be more like the "facebook" of the bdsm community. Whoa, I'm having a High-School flashback...Regardless, I will keep checking THIS profile & making new friends that I can learn from. Thanks for reading! xoxo |
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day 1 on CM: creepers galore. I have a feeling this is going to get annoying. I'm working on getting some more pic's up..I've noticed a trend on this site; everyone thinks all the n00bs are fake profiles..pfft. f*** that.
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I just want you to know, I've got no place to go..until the day you die. While you're waiting, be thankful for your fingers..I'll be fading like the colors of your pictures...
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Male Dominant, 58
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Male Dominant, 31
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Male Dominant, 33, panama city, Florida
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Male Dominant, 37, Hollywood, California
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Male Switch, 32, Ft. Washington, Maryland
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Male Dominant, 28, ATHENS
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Male Dominant, 26, Tukwila, Washington
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Female Submissive, 43
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Male Submissive, 28, akl
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Male Dominant, 28, West Bloomfield, Michigan
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Male Dominant, 24, Nova Scotia
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Female Dominant, 45, Aurora, Colorado
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