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Male Dominant, 47, Revere, Massachusetts
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Male Switch, 33
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Female Submissive, 47, Portland, Oregon
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About TantricSuck
I believe being a dominant is not about conventions, not about roles on some bdsm site, and not about capitalization or spelling (except when people use "dominate" as an adjective, like "I'm a dominate top" - that bugs the hell out of me). I actually think doms that require subs to capitalize or who capitalize their own pronouns are insecure. To me, a dominant is someone who knows their sub's mind from the inside and knows what buttons to push, what buttons the sub NEEDS pushed. The dominant has the sub do things they want but are afraid to ask for or do on their own; the dominant bestows upon the sub what they cannot bestow upon themselves. That's not to say the dom's own desires and pleasures are sidelined - they are just included in the act. And of course, thinking of naughty ways to get under the sub's skin and push their buttons (games, bets, orders with failure conditions) is a pleasure unto itself. I admit I'm not much into pain - I'm willing to do a small amount if a sub REALLY loves it, but its about the pleasure it brings them not the inflicting of pain. While there will be physical props and acts, sensual touches and such, domination for me is firmly in the mind and voice - everything else simply assists this.
I'm a geek, an artist, a mystic, a cynic, a scholar, and a fool. Any of those are wonderful avenues to get to know me by.
I am not interested in polyamory.
If you are not committed and dating a few people, that's fine. I have no interest in anyone in multiple relationships, nor am I interested in having multiple relationships myself.
SWITCHES:
Of special interest to me are those that are fluid with their switching. I can and will go into play with roles already set. But I have a special love of play where the roles switch with the energy, back and forth. Or, roleplay/play/games where the roles are not set when we start - the power play evolves from our play, our energy, our encounter. There is a certain tingly anticipation not know as we enter it in which way things will end up.
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Rather disappointed in this place recently. It seems most are not looking for what I'm looking for, instead they're looking for something much deeper into bdsm than I, or looking for requirements far more specific than I can meet.
Disappointing, but I understand people need to have somewhere to look. It just means the place for me is elsewhere.
If you do like my profile, by all means let me know; I'll still get email notifications. But I think in general I'll be around here less often. |
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Exploring and embracing my dominant side lately... |
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