TandDcouple

(note: rewritten 8/11/2011)

My husband and I are looking for a submissive who wants to become part of the dynamics of our family.


To put it simply, we are looking for more of the "daughter" type of submissive, meaning someone we can love and have pride in. We want to be able to provide for your every need and mold you to the image we feel you should become. We want to believe in you more than you believe in yourself, and encourage and support you to achieve your goals and ambitions.


To achieve this we will use a combination of love, respect, rewards, and discipline.



We want you to have pride in us as we will you, and long to do nothing more than to please us.


We are not into the physical torture of a submissive, nor do be believe in abuse of any kind outside of your physical limits. We do not use whips or chains and things like that.


We do expect our submissive to accomplish tasks and help around the house. We will push her to further herself and to make and accomplish goals.


We do believe in training a submissive as part of becoming part of our family. She will learn the dynamics of what we expect from her, as well as how we plan to give her the feeling of selfworth and pride.


Collars, spankings, mental control, sexual control, cuffs, child type punishments, and rewards are all things we will use as part of the training (based upon your hard limits)


Once again we to not believe to Abuse or Torture as part of our D/s lifestyle. We are more interested in wanting someone who has the internal desire to submit than to force you to submit through torture and abuse.


We will work to earn the right for you to submit to us, and love us. We do not expect you to just Jump right in and have to deep desire to want to please us right away, as we will need to earn that respect.

About us (general):

We are a fun down to earth couple who believes in the "old school" way of helping your neighbor, though we do enjoy the party scene as well. We do not do drugs and do not want any woman who does anything more than Pot every once in a while (though we wouldn't allow it inside our house).

We have a 5 year old daughter getting ready to start Kindergarten. So you need to be good with Children.

About us (as dominates):

about me:

I am a bisexual woman who enjoys rock concerts and writting erotic books. I am a Nurse by profession, and have a desire to help others to reach there potential and lead them to be all they can be.

(My domination type would be somewhere between a respected big sister/mother type.)

About my Husband:

My Husband is a straight man who works out of the home, and owns a small website development company. He has the desire to be looked upon as the leader and provider of the family. He loves to control a situation, but is not against compromise.

He has a very kind heart and is in no way an abusive guy. He is very smart and does well with the ability to make someone want to submit to him through a commanding but loving demeanor, such as a father would his daughter.

To pretty much sum up what my husband would be like as a Dominate just visit this page: http://www.domsubfriends.com/voye/articles/110/ it's probably the closest thing I have seen to sum up what he would be looking for and to do as a master.

If you have any questions, please ask