TakeMeAsIAm2010

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile i am honored you have taken the time. upfront i will be honest to say although i am submissive in the bedroom in my outside life i know what i want and i know what i dont want ive been burned before and am not going to change this part of myself any time soon if this bugs you dont bother reading further and thank you for your time. if this sounds interesting to you wonderful.

approx 90% sub 10% dom although i dont usualy like to dominate i like to have control of what i do and dont do and i have been told in the past that is not how a sub should be but thats me take it or leave it.

A little about me:

im 24 years old and have been in the lifestyle for about 4 years with my last bf.

he introduced me to the lifestyle however i was new to it before that. simply put he was not willing to take the time to help train me and expected me to know what i was doing. be warned i am pretty much a nubie but i assure you i am quick to learn.

i am not interested in someone who wants me to be a 24/7 slave thats not who i am however i would also be a great house wife ..... i enjoy cooking and household chores i like helping ppl and taking care of them but do not like being treated like a stray dog with no respect.

i belive if i am to be submissive to someone i need to trust them. i do not want just a master i want someone who can cuddle and watch tv, go out in public with hang out with friends with someone who can be a freind as well. although sub's should not be demanding if you are not going to respect me dont bother i just got out of a relationship with someone who wanted to treat me like crap 24/7 and wanted things to be his way all the time. for a long time i thought that was how a sub/dom relationship worked but after talking to some people on this site i learned that it was not me that was the problem. so sorry i cant do that i want to keep my individuality. i am willing to learn but not untill im sure i can trust youi am interested in pushing my own limits but dont want to endanger myself either. if you are willing to put in the time to become my friend and see where it goes great if you are looking for a quick fun play thing your looking in the wrong place. i am open to many things but from expirence will not be ok in an open relatinship (3 some maybe) as i have only seen that end badly on my behalf. to be upfront i have trust issues and can be emothional but i assure you once i get to know you and become freinds with you i am extreamly loyal and will stand by you through anything . I will not just webcam with you cause you want it and if you are willing to try to get to know me i will send pictures but only once im sure that your not just wanting a fling. --

ultimatly i want a normal relationship built on trust and friendship but want to have someone also that can punnish me in the bedroom and help me grow. if this sounds like something you might be interested or even if you want to just be friends one can never have to many friend then send me a message. know that i practicaly live through my bb so if you are interested in emailing send me your email and i can reply right away or just be patient and ill try to get on as much as i can.