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Please notice that there is no Sir, Lord or Master in my name. You are not expected to prostrate yourself at my feet in your first contact (or second, or third...). You are expected to carry your half of the conversation, to show me depth, wit and charm. To participate fully and whole heartedly with me in an equal exchange. Do not push me to meet with you after two emails and do not expect to be collared in a week. You will not control our relationship from the bottom, in the beginning nor the end. I am not your master, unless and until, we reach a point where you ask me to fulfill that role and I accept. Then the situation changes competely... |
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Most people would rather die than think, and they do. -Bertrand Russell |
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Thinking is sexy, very sexy. Exploring the mind and emotions are every bit as important as exploring the body. The three together are more than the sum of the parts. |
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Recently I had a mild, but interesting, experience. I relate it here because it serves to demonstrate what I am about. I was on a hike with a group of people. It was only a few miles, but there was a good increase in elevation and the footing was terrible. This combination made the hike fairly strenuous. I was asked, with a couple of the other men to lead the hike. As the route was easy and the way was clear, there was no challenge in that. Instead I choose to bring up the rear and assist anyone who needed help. Early on it was clear that one woman and one girl were struggling. The girl was burdened by a backpack. I put her pack under my own and she quickly recovered and moved ahead. The woman was somewhat overweight and clearly out of shape. She would struggle for a short distance, walking stiffly, with exaggerated movements and then stop and pant, trying to catch her breath. It was clear she would not make the summit and was disappointed by the embarrassment that would bring. I walked with her. I established a rapport with her, telling her a bit of my outdoor experiences. I established my credibility without being boastful. Once she had accepted my level of expertise, I began encouraging her and coaching her. I both instructed and demonstrated what she needed to be doing. I would lead her so she could see for herself and then followed her, so she had to demonstrate to me that she was following my instructions. I had her measure and time her pace, match it to her breathing, step properly and in the right places, contain herself on the downhill stretches and keep up on the uphill stretches. Soon, she was in control of her breathing and she stopped trembling. She realized that she could make the summit. We arrived not far behind the group and were able to enjoy time at the top. She was very grateful, complimented my knowledge, patience and ability to transform her in such a short amount of time. She gushed that she would have not made it without me. And, she was proud of herself. I enjoyed the experience of manipulating the situation and her. Of formulating the strategy necessary to avoid resistance from her. I enjoyed the challenge of being able to control her, without her consciously realizing that I was doing more than assisting her. I also left the situation with a clear conscious, knowing that I had truly helped her and left her better than I found her. |
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I am not interested in the “scene.” I have no interest in showing off, displaying my lady (in a lewd fashion), sharing her or abusing her. Nor do I care for the outward trappings. Dressing up, macho jewelry, strutting about leave me cold.
Teasing. This is something I love. To be enticed with a bit of beguile, to chase, capture and restrain. To caress, tease and excite. To time each touch to accentuate the last. To wait just long enough for the desire to build even more. To slowly draw a woman into a special place where time stands still, the world disappears and her mind and body merge. To bring her three aspects together so that her emotions, mind and body build to a crescendo simultaneously. To hear, feel and see her passion. To prolong the release until she is desperate for it. Then to plunge her into uncontrollable spasms of ecstasy, releasing her tensions completely and leaving her drained and totally satisfied.
To pleasure her means going all the way. It's not good enough if she can, or must, help her self. This is hard to explain. If the man isn’t good enough, doesn’t know the woman well enough, doesn’t care enough, he cannot satisfy her completely. She will have to participate. To add the touches she needs to be satisfied. To shift her position, rub something the right way. Direct him in some fashion. If this is necessary, she will not be totally satisfied. Physical release may occur, but she’ll feel like it wasn’t what she was really seeking. There will be a sense of disappointment. She will be involved and therefore cannot be released completely. She can't let herself go, if she has to "be there" to help out.
However, if control is taken from her. If she is helpless, restrained, blindfolded, unable to reach or touch, prevented from doing anything to participate and if the man is skilled and caring enough to put her at ease, pleasure her, take control of her in total (all three aspects, mind, body and soul). He can then drive her past where she could take herself, her mind and emotions can travel with her body, to places she has never been, past her barriers. The orgasm she will have will be complete, exhausting and satisfying. The so called “big O.”
What I am about, is trust, guidance, leadership. Setting an example, making good choices, anticipating the future. Creating an environment for growth and exploration. Setting goals and working toward them. Expanding horizons, testing limits.
Feel free to write me. I will reply to each email. Welcome! |
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| Age: 23 |
| Vacaville,
California |
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