TacitApproval

Showing up gives us permission to play with your body...

My wife and I swing together, but the BDSM is mostly my scene (neither of us is bi). Both of us have ultimate veto authority on all playmates. My wife likes to watch (tickles her perv nerve, so to speak), but occasionally likes to orchestrate what I do with playmates.

What do we like? Oral, vanilla sex, assplay (plugs, fingering, vibes, fucking; no scat). I'm the one that's into bondage, discipline, impact play, tit-play, wax (not really into watersports)...

Basically, I like to figure out what my playmates are into, and then concentrate on that. If you're into something that's not on the list, we can negotiate.