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Hello there denizens of Collarme! We are a long time couple (10 years together) - female submissive, male dominant - and we are on the search for a playmate to help us learn and explore this whacky world of kinkery.
We recently had our first play session with a close female friend and a male friend of hers - it was a wonderful experience and we wish to continue the trend in the coming year.
We are looking for either a female domme or dominant couple (if one in the couple is submissive, that is just fine by us as well) in order to explore my own submissive tendencies with, to help show my husband "the ropes" (pun absolutely intended!) about proper domming, and to simply get together and have a good time exploring the ins and outs (yep, another pun!) of BDSM.
Our main areas of interest are impact play, bondage, and humiliation play. Games such as "how many lashes did I just give you" and "stand still no matter what" (so difficult for me!) are great fun for us. We are looking for ways to test and push my pain limits, as well as push through comfort levels and boundries (hard limits, of course, must always be respected), as ten years of us being together can make doing that difficult. We truly believe that by having new friends in the lifestyle, helping us and having fun with us, will help do that.
We are also discovering a new found sense of joy, pride, and excitement in pushing comfort levels through predicament bondage, humiliation play, and forced service. (of mine, of course, he is on the commanding side of the slash!)
While we are fairly new to the area of playing with other people, we do bring to the table a good sized toy collection (with many impact play implements, as it's our favorite!), enthusiasm, and an eagerness to learn, on both his and I accounts.
Age, race, and body type are not a concern, although we do request that no drugs or alcohol are introduced during play. Please do not send any responses that start out with requests for phone numbers, addresses, or other such personable information - safe, sane, and consensual (and meetings prior to any play session) is a big player in what we are looking for.
I should also add (being as this is the internet) that I am not interested in doing this without my husband present and participating. This isn't because we are in a 24/7, it's because we both want to explore this *together* so please no emails unless you are willing to work with us both.
Also, while we aren't looking for particular stimulating conversation, please note that we are both nerds galore and can talk your ears off about RPG'ing (tabletop, sorry to disappoint you folks!) and politics, science fiction, gothery and geekery galore . There may also be some embarrasingly cutesy chit-chat about our cats, as they are the apples of our eyes.
Our favorite toys include our bit gag, blinfold, our paddles, and our newly discovered mini-blind rod (oh the joys of learning caning!) and as we are delving into this, we are finding the the psychological aspect of D/s more and more delicious.
The ideal candidate(s) for our playmate is one that is comfortable with a couple of novices like us and absolutely respects the need for a few "getting to know you emails" and dinner before any playdates. An interest in impact play is a very good thing, as it is our number one kink so far, and the ability to laugh even in scene (or giggle, because sometimes great play makes for good giggling!) is also a must. If you're new to the scene, too, that's great - we can learn together!
Please understand that we are not, as of this moment, looking for any males to join us without a female companion (that may change soon, we'll let you know when that does!) and we are also not looking for a 24/7 or any committed romantic relationship, poly or otherwise, of any kind.
We would, however, love to make some great new and long term friends (don't those always make for the best playmates anyhow?) for 2009!
Hope to hear from you soon!
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