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Not liking this whole thing where people message you, you start a good dialogue, start to think there might be a chance to make a good friend then they disappear.... no reason or explanation, they just never talk to you again.....

Bad times

Thought I was doing well and staying off this site, but got drawn back in....

Mainly back because of certain persons I've met off here, one who is sooo lovely, even though she pretends to be a domme ;) and the other is a lovely sub girl :)

Just wanted to share with anyone who bothers to read anything any more an extract of a message I received. Now let me set the scene... first log on in over a month... Low and behold I find a message from someone who claims to be a sub, offering money if I 'use' him. Now don't get me wrong, in this day and age, money is always handy, but if I don't know you why would you pay me?? I'm somewhat confused, but as always I shall ignore both that individual and, to the best of my abilities, this site.

I know I will probably end up back on here at some stage, but there's not much point. Having moved recently I've had some fun experiences, and this site contributed in no way to those experiences... Well if anyone real is reading this you should say hi, even if its only message to say hi, it would restore my faith that there are a) real people and b) normal people

It's official, I love alcohol, why I hear you ask.... well for a small number of reasons. Numero 1o) I'm Northern Irish, I have part Irish blood, despite being one of the smaller EU countries they still manager to drink the most.... says it all really. 2) Sometime it washes away the memories of the past, now sometimes it doesn't, indeed it makes those memories more vivid, its 50/50, but I'll risk it for a magners. 3) I just like the taste, I love the taste of Black Bush, and for all you dorty minded fuckers black bush is a type of irish whiskey made by the bushmills company, matured in cherry casks, it rocks! And finally, 4) It gives me something to do, I drink almost every night now, just one or two, in fact mostly guiness, which in this kind of moderated level is technically good for me, though I think the magners counters that. Anyway I have noticed I'm still on this site.... yet I struggle to explain why?? Answers on a postcard or in an email!

It has struck me that, unfortunately the majority of the lovely young ladies I find on this site are either a) fake or b) not interested in men, which I can actually understand, for some strange reason men on these sites appear so desperate I have never had a problem talking to gay or bi-sexual man in the past, in fact as part of my job while I was studying my undergraduate degree the bar I worked in hosted one of Belfast's premier gay nights every Monday, and I worked most of them. Anyhoo back to my rant. I personally just want to get chatting to people, in all honesty, you really need to be from Belfast or Newcastle upon Tyne to spark an interest in meeting. So that aside I have no interest in your gender, colour or sexual orientation, as long as your a nice person and we get along :) I won't name names, that's just childish, but there was a male sub, sent me a message almost everyday, and when I didn't reply, because I was one TWO WEEK TRAINING COURSE WITH LIMITED INTERNET ACCESS started accusing me of being fake. Well sorry but I can prove I'm real, so once I eventually got back to him he gave me the whole "Oh I'm a good submissive" schpeal, the "I do what time told" crap. So I set him a simply challenge, which was to send me a small amount of money via paypal to upgrade an account on a different site. Low and behold he was gone.... so much for "I'll do whatever I can to prove myself worthy".....

Ladies I feel so sorry for you having to put up with us men I really do!!! 

Ok rant over, peace out folks and I do hope to hear from some nice people sometime soon, I don't really care who you are, as long as your nice, and a real person your good in my books :) Peace out fuckers