1.   I will be patient

     2.   I will be humble

     3.   I will be honest

     4.   I will be realistic

     5.   I will be sensitive

     6.   I will be genuine

     7.   I will communicate clearly

     8.   I will be open with my thoughts

     9.   I will make it fun

    10.  I will never ask you to do something that you do not want to do

 

 

These ten pledges are pretty much standard in BDSM but I have slightly modified them to personalize them for me. I have added pledge number 10 which is very important because ultimately this is all about trust.

 

As for my rules they are very simple and I have added them below.

 

     1.    We never involve our personal lives.

     2.    I don't like to be called "Master"  You can call me Sir, Scott or whatever you like as              long as you address me with respect.

     3.    I expect OBEDIENCE.

     4.    I expect you to ask for permission if you want to do something while we are

            together.

     5.    When I enter, I expect you to stand at attention before me.

     6.    When I tell you to do something, you do it until I tell you to stop.

     7.    If we ever run into each other in public, we act as if we do not know each other.  

 

These are my rules and number (7) is the most important.  If for any reason you don't think you can follow any of these then there is no need to go any further.  Just let me know. 

 

If you agree to my rules the next thing you need to do is come up with a "SAFE" word.  As safe word is a word that we all agree to and what it will mean is to stop anything we are doing instantly. I want the word to be your word and it can be anything you want it to be.

 

Please let me know if you have any questions or concerns.