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I'm what most consider a "Hollywood submissive". I don't live it as a lifestyle, I'm not going to sit at a dominates feet, and I certainly am not going to ask permission to use the washroom. I know who I am, know what I want, and know how to tell who can meet the needs I have. I'm using this website as one of many to assist in finding my one true life partner. I'm monogamous through and through, and won't settle for being someone's second best. I'm not here to 'learn' how to be a submissive; that already is. I'm here to find someone to grow with. I value intelligence, acceptance, openness, and honesty. I practice bdsm in the bedroom. And not hardcore, either. I'm not into whips and chains, not into being spit on, or into being struck so hard that blood is drawn. I aim to thoroughly please, but have become unhappy in past relationships when my own needs have not been met (both between the sheets and generally speaking). I need someone who places high value on intelligence, self confidence, and self awareness. Someone that is not afraid to take charge and step up when needed, even outside of the typical bdsm bedroom practices. No, I am not a switch. I am submissive in every sense of the word. I don't play mind games, and don't appreciate attempts on me. Demanding? Perhaps. But when it comes down to it, being a submissive in a sea of abusers, fakes, scam artists, and wannabe's, there comes a point where standards must be met on both parts. Just because one is submissive, doesn't make them sub-human. Not interested in 35+, women, out of country, have children, smokers, druggies, poly, or hardcore. Thanks.
1/9/2013 5:30:13 PM

Keep the hate mail coming. I lol at it all.

12/30/2012 10:06:35 PM

I was on this site well over a year and a half ago. Perhaps that's why I'm slightly jaded about being back. But unlike last time, I have a purpose. Although there are a lot of people out there that don't care to read profiles, make ignorant and prejudicial comments, or insist on pushing boundaries, I'm using every available means to find what I want. Although it does test my patience at times...

 

It will come. I know it :)

 

Also: I am Canadian. It's colour, labour, and favourite to me. It's also zed instead of zee, a toque instead of a beanie, and a pop instead of a soda. Don't criticize me for my spelling and use of language and I won't criticize you for typing like a six year old just learning how 2 spel things rite,k?

lizzyweb
 
 Age: 30
 New York, New York