synfulkitten

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Female Switch, 24, new york

Female Switch, 22, Indy, Indiana

This is something that i felt that i had to write on. i received this e-mail today, i will not reveal this Dom's name, but this is someone who i believe has no respect for women, and is just looking for his next "victim". Here is the e-mail. Read further after the e-mail for more of my view on this. E-mail: Hi, I am sending this canned message to determine how well your skills are at detecting canned messages. Normally canned messages such as this one come with lids, pretty decoration on the outside, virtually nothing on the inside and some really utterly boring diatribe about all the great accomplishments that amount to next to nothing. As for being a fake, what exactly is that, does that you are going to tell Me with your... um two years experience that I am not what I seem to be? That's fine, I think submissives on this site think they know it all anyway, but if you can tell that I am a fake just from this email then you are more arrogant than you profile gives you discredit on... a whole two years... wow... I am impressed... not really but it sounded nice. Oh, I would say that Mass is a nice place to be, but something about your profile just turns Me off... ZK --------------------------------------- Now, if my profile turns you off so much - just don't e-mail me. Just keep moving on to the next submissive that will believe anything that you spew out of your mouth. i do NOT have 2 years experience, i have NO idea where that came from because in my profile i have no where that says how many years experience i have. To clear that up, i have over 12 years experience in this lifesyle. i have been through a lot in those years. i have been with Dom's just like the one above. They have all become abusive. Just because i am submissive does not mean i do not have a brain. i do NOT claim to "know everything" nor would i ever make that claim. This is to all the submissives out there. Do NOT fall for the first Dom that comes your way showering you with compliments. Take your time. Be respectful, but be firm in your beliefs. i know there are a LOT of fakes on here that are just looking to beat on a woman because he has surpressed anger towards his mother, or another head female figure in his life. A TRUE Dominant will LEARN your likes and your dislikes. He will cherish you. He will respect your limits (*gasp* yes, you CAN have limits if you so choose! Amazing concept). For those that will say that i am not a submissive, i will reply that you are wrong. i AM submissive, i just simply have high standards and as a woman and submissive i respect myself. That is the key word - RESPECT. If you do not respect yourself, an abuser WILL find you and he will exploit that weakness to it's fullest until you find you have to escape. If you find yourself in this type of situation, you are NOT alone. There are outlets and you CAN leave. Do not put up with abuse.

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