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pattymurphy
Domination is a mindset, not a use of force alone.
Legs are beautiful, hips are needed, and breasts are incredible, yet without a smile and pair of eyes, how can I tell what a girl is truly about?
Before anything else, while I am willing to prove I am real, I am not willing to talk to people asking for me to sign up for anything at all, give them any kind of money as "proof", or things of that nature. I only speak English, and as such, those I talk to must speak English as well. I also require someone who speaks English rather well, including when typing, and will discontinue any communications with someone who has very broken English for any reason. My first assumption, you are fake, and if not, well, I am not willing to tolerate horrible grammar and spelling anyways, so it is a lose lose.
So, it has been a little while I have been looking around this site, and without finding much to interest me. I have moved, and married, and now I look more out of curiosity than much else. I am, what I would call, dominant, and my wife a submissive. I am interested in possibly bringing a second female, most likely a slave, into the relationship, but at a very slow, slow pace. My wife is rather hesitant on thoughts of anything of this nature, and I am taking my time working her into the idea so perhaps we shall just talk a while at first. For those of you out there saying "Don't care what she wants, tell her what is happening like a real Dom would" I don't need you to contact me. We have different views on submissive and slave, and I would never treat a submissive that way.
I am active duty military, and years of interest and work in this darker of worlds. I am most interested in a slave, perhaps a Gorean based concept for perfect enjoyment, but as I said before, at first only to talk and explore the world, share stories and ideas, only with time telling if more is to become.
Currently, I think I am looking for most is a slave, though a submissive might be alright under the right circumstances. While I love my wife, there is nothing quite so enticing, quite so beautiful, so intense, so sexual as a well trained slave girl. A submissive has her own desires and wants, and though she will bend knee to her dominant, a slave would have no wants, no desires but my own and the only knee she need bend is when I tell her to. True, I think a slave would be easier for my wife to learn with, the fact is, the desire for a slave is more mine, for though I am a dominant now, I want to show my Master side as well, to enjoy, to savor, to claim a woman as our slave.
5/18/2007 7:09:52 AM
So, I found an interesting person on here, and suprise suprise, her account gets deleted.  Seemed real enough so I can only figure that, as she commented, the waves of fakes just did her in.  Screwing over the few reals, just getting so tired of all the fakes.
5/12/2007 5:00:27 PM
Wow, so many damn fakes on here... Already, in the past three I mailed, two came back as obvious fakes, one sending her profile again and nothing more, the other just... yeah...  So I wonder how many are even real on this...
5/11/2007 7:02:06 PM
Always interesting to see so many people online, and yet it seems that way to many people message subs that they barely even check messages to respond.  If only we could lose the idiots, all, I think, would be fine.
5/10/2007 9:11:50 AM
I have come to realize something on my short time here, that I have deep down known for a long time. There are alot of fakes out there, and those who are not, often misunderstand, in what my mind, is a clear definition of oneself. So many out there seem to think that a Dominant has Domination over another, and that is, to me, so far from the truth. Anyone can have domination over another, even a slave at heart can hold domination over one who is a true Dominant at heart. I will have domination over any, just give me some chains, a whip, and a bit of time, and I can break the body. But that is domination, not being a Dominant. A Dominant is one who has control of themselves, knows and is able to have control first of themselves, than of another if desired. Domination is not what a true slave is after, but to be Dominated is. To Dominate, one must be able to meld the mind as well as the body, to control the mind of the other in a way that the other wants to, and needs to, be controlled. To have another do as you desire not for fear, but because they want to, that is truly the call of a Dominant.
If you don't understand this, ask, I have no issue explaning what I mean, no matter who you are. Dominant, switch, submissive, it matters not, ask my belief so you can understand me. Even slave, ask, for that is why we are here, is that not the case? Just don't presume to tell me I am wrong, though if you honestly feel I am, I have no problem discussing it, but I do not take kindly to others simply telling me I am wrong, not to an opinion.