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I enjoy being in a relationship with a sexually and sensually dominant female who likes being in control in the bedroom. I am at heart a pussy slave and I've known it since I was in my teens. I guess you could call me a feisty sub - I'm nobody's doormat and not looking to be one, but I adore women and love pleasing. As I said earlier, I'm very into pussy and ass worship, dildo play, verbal humiliation and lightly forced scenes. Lately I've found myself thinking a lot about cuck play. There's more, and I'm happy to share if you ask. I've played with swinging in the past and really enjoyed it and would like to have that as an occasional part of our social life together. I've had rewarding relationships and I know how to be a great partner, just haven't found the right one yet.
I'm very cognizant of how everyone's kink is different, and that we all what we want. I don't believe that there are hard and fast rules about what being a sub or a Domme "is" - it's ultimately about what feels right to each of us and who we're attracted to. Yes, I know I'm submissive; yes I know there are lots of submissive men out here; yes I know that there are lots of liars and crazy people in the alt and straight dating world. I'm also very picky and know what I want and don't want. This doesn't mean that I'm not sexually submissive, but it does mean that I'm selective in who I meet and play with. What I do know is that I'm too kinky for a straight dating site, but definitely not the most hard-core on Alt. Then again, it's not a competition either.
I'm a creative, articulate, driven professional with little baggage, no kids and a great work ethic. I'm open to someone with kids as long as your relationship with your ex isn't too negative and your kids are happy and well adjusted.
Physically, I'm in good shape - I work-out 2 - 3 times a week, have good stamina and am fortunate to look close to 10 years younger than my age. I'm clean, have nice teeth and I'm nicely manscaped. Taking care of myself is a priority for me. For me, sex is about quality, not quantity.
As a person, I'm incredibly communicative and open - no secrets here. I'm not the typical "guy's guy" who lives for sports and will retreat to his cave when challenged. I actually enjoy shopping and long, deep conversations. I'm also playful and a little goofy sometimes.
Being a pretty femdomme's bitch/pussyboy would make me (and ideally you) very happy. Would you like that?
My Ideal Person: What I'm looking for:
I'm ideally looking for a committed relationship with a sexually dominant woman who's looking for the same in a man. I'm submissive, but that's only sexually - the rest of the relationship I want for is a collaborative partnership that's based on love, trust and amazing chemistry and communication. My submissive side is an integral part of who I am sexually, not just some kink that I've tried and liked. I can switch lightly, and it's fun sometimes, but it's definitely NOT my default setting. While age is less important, I'm ideally looking for a woman who's 46 or younger.
What I'm attracted to:
The woman:
Normal, balanced, smart, educated and curious about the world, giving, open-minded, a patient communicator, Bi or Bi curious. Someone who during play enjoys dressing the role and looks amazing in fetish wear. You must be into taking care of yourself both physically and emotionally. If you haven't figured it out yet, I'm really looking for an amazing woman who's normal on the outside and a freak underneath and who's comfortable with both aspects and requires this in her partner.
The body:
In great shape and toned, pretty and poised. Shaved. Long hair is very nice. Sorry, but overweight is a real turn-off for me.
What I'm NOT looking for:
Bitchy, demanding or selfish behavior (outside of playtime of course)
Craziness or drama
Pain beyond light spanking
Financial domination of any kind
Pro Dommes
A 24/7 D/s relationship
Long-distance / cyber relationships that never move into R/T.
"A few extra pounds" or "BBW". No insult intended, it's just not attractive to me.
Overly inked (tasteful tats are cool)
Lots of facial piercings (tongue studs are great)
Masculinity in a partner
I'm not into pain or $$, but open to most else. To me, there's a big difference between being dominant and being obnoxious. I'm a very nice person, so I expect the same. If you're her, I'm really looking forward to hearing from you!
Single again and available!
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