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About sxebartender
I am a Dom with about a year and a half of experience in the scene. I try to be as active in the local scene as I can, but work sometimes limits my participation. I am looking for a sub to play with, although I am also open to a more long term relationship. I'm more into the D/s and bondage side of things, but s & m is fun too. Drop me a line and we can talk and see if we are compatable. |
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So, the other night I met up with a new woman to play with. We hadn't done a full-blown negotiation, but I had a general idea of what she liked and what she didn't and we went over safe-words, etc. I learned something new about myself during this session. This partuclar woman likes to be humiliated during sex, called a whore, bitch, dirty slut, and slapped around a little bit. I have never been much on sadism and although dirty talk has always aroused me, I never degraded someone I was with. But, that's what she wanted, so I gave it a shot, and you know what? I REALLY liked it! I know I have trust issues in relationships, and this was basically an overt way for me to take some aggression out. You learn something new about yourself everyday. heh! |
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this is my first journal entry! are you excited? i'm excited! ok, just got back from woods stocks '03 and i had a blast! this is a 4 day event that has been going on for the past 4 or 5 years. anyone that hasn't heard about it should DEFINATELY check it out next year. all kinds of seminars and playtime, etc. i was trained as a dm by neil from black rose, which was very interesting! :o) this weekend has totally heightened my interest in bdsm and i am even more interested in finding a play partner! (or 2...maybe 3? heh!) |
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