swpadom

Ok, trying this again but this time I'm going to be more active on here. Let me start by

saying I am very open to a LTR, something I haven't been in quite some time, but I'm not desperate.

I have an empty nest now but family and friends are still important to me so I am not looking for a 24/7 dynamic. I would like to live the lifestyle most of the time when we are alone together but this isn't a deal breaker.

So a little about me. I'm 45, I've been single since the 90's by choice but now it is my time as the kids are out of the house. I'm just a regular guy with a kinky side. I work a blue collar job and I'm happy. You need to be happy also. I'm not looking for Mary Poppins but if your pissed off all day and all night we won't get along. I make jokes, a lot of them, I can dish it out was well as I take it. If you can't laugh at yourself you will hate me. I'm a sucker for redheads, tall redheads to be honest but I'm open to all races and ages.

Small rant. I'm not into BBW's, just not my thing, but a woman with a little meat on her bones is great. Let me put it to you this way. 5'11 and 200#, not a bbw to me. 5'2 and 220#, sorry I'm not interested.

There are a few must haves if there is any chance of a LTR. The happy thing again, I'm so tired of pissed of women and men. Take your misery somewhere else, life is to short for crying all the time, of course we all have our moods but not 24/7. I want to slut. That is not a put down. There is nothing as sexy as a woman who knows what she likes and then goes and gets it. I don't want a good girl with a bad side. I want a slut with a good side. If you won't go to a swing club it won't work for us. I'm as much of a voyeur as I am Dom.

If any of this interests you message me and lets see if we click and go from there. We can just chat to see if there is going any further. No need for the D/s to play out till we are comfortable with each other.