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Male Submissive, 37, Sedona, Arizona
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Male Submissive, 60, Detroit-Kalamazoo, Michigan
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About switchkitty78
Because some folk don't read, lol:
I'm not currently looking for guys - sorry! If you wanna chat or make friends, cool, but I'm all set with my husband right now.
What I am here looking for:
Ladies! :) I am looking for submissive to switchy girls to be friends and play with, both by myself and with my boy. I usually slant sub (see below for more details) but lately I've been wanting to flex the claws and control, break someone down and painstakingly put them back together again, to spoil and be spoiled. Sound interesting? Keep reading. :)
More about me:
I am kinky (obviously). Not just in the sexual implications of the word, though that of course applies. But I like thinking outside the box, thinking three steps to the right or left of what's considered mainstream, I love exploring these things, I love probing all points of view, including normative ones. And yes, I love dressing up in tight things and making people hurt in happy ways, and having them return the favor.
I am a switch. My motto used to be "just because I wear the collar doesn't mean I'm not the one in charge," and there is some truth to that. Generally what I try to do for my partners is create a safe emotional zone for whatever they need - if they want someone to take control, to use them, to hurt them, I can do that, gladly and willingly. What happens more often than not is that people need a safe place to let the demons out of the box, and thus I am usually presenting myself as a willing outlet/recipient for others' savagery, cruelty, or sadism, or whatever else that stays bottled up most of the time, which is why I usually end up in the submissive role. I know what I can take, and where my limits are (they're pretty high). Which is why what tends to happen a lot is that people who normally identify as subs switch into the most fantastically fearsome Dominants around me. Those that are already Doms? They get just a little meaner, just a little more savage... and better at what they do.
I am poly, though currently I'm currently in a single relationship that's been evolving in an interesting way for a couple years. Love is a gift in all forms, and one too rarely given. It is also infinite and boundless - to say I will only ever love one person seems selfish. To have another expect that of me even more so. I believe in trust, faithfulness, fidelity and loyalty, but do not see how these things cannot apply to more than one.
I am queer/bisexual. I use both labels interchangably: queer because while I pretty firmly identify as female, I know and love people all across the gender spectrum, bisexual because it's the label I've identified with the longest, and well, I'm lazy and it takes less explanation to "normal" people. Both, I think are important identities to own - bisexual because yes, it's a valid orientation, just because I'm currently in a relationship with a man doesn't mean that I give up the rest of my identity. Queer because getting out of a binary system of gender is a good thing. (And reminds me to do so as well.)
I'm a mischievous adventurous dreamer. I'm a geek. I love to read, I play WoW (when I'm not utterly bored with it) I watch sci-fi shows on Netflix, I spend entirely too much time on the internet. I pore over toy catalogs as though they were literature. I play WoW. I love kissing my partner. I like cats. I'm sensitive to others' energy and love feeling it focus and change during sex, during scenes. I love kissing my boyfriend, he's got such an insanely kissable mouth that it's a crying shame he doesn't spend every waking moment being kissed. I love cute, sweet, cuddly women, and men so comfortable with themselves they could walk out in full makeup and a dress and somehow make it the most savagely attractive masculine thing ever. I don't like pina coladas, but I do like getting caught in the rain. I'm crazy, but in a fun way, not a serial killer way. If you're sad, I will annoy the hell out of you until you smile. And if I don't get kissed goodnight I have nightmares. No really.
Did you actually read all that? Wow. Message me. :) |
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