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*edited as of 10/1*
I am very much enjoying being single and not inclined to begin anything serious soon, but feel free to write. We might get along :)
I will respond to all messages when possible...unless you clearly haven't read my profile. Local, intelligent and attractive people have priority. I do get a lot of mail and don't check this site every day, so please be patient.
I have been exploring my sexuality for longer than I'd care to admit, and experimenting with kink and BDSM for around six years now. I consider myself a beginner.
I do switch, but have been cultivating submissive traits and would like to continue. My desires have become predominantly submissive, hence my listed kinky orientation. I have no interest in switching with a dominant partner - though I don't mind topping occasionally and I do love dominating young shy submissives.
I love to please and amuse my Sir or my Lady, and be used - with control and respect - as Your favourite sex toy. I enjoy serving and housework, and I am a good cook. All my skills are Yours, and my body belongs to You. I can be disobedient, and I need a strong dominant willing to discipline me if I misbehave with a gag, an impact toy or other means (gags are very effective, I don't enjoy them). I find power exchange to be very erotic and I do very much enjoy the sexual aspects of play. I do have a bit of an exhibitionist streak. I have a talent for giving oral and I can squirt. I know what I like so I do tend to top from the bottom, but I'm sure a competent Dom/me can put me in my place: at your feet and at your bidding.
While I do appreciate more mature partners, a considerable age difference (25+ years) may not be acceptable. I am in good shape and appreciate partners in similar physical condition.
NO tickling - HARD LIMIT. NO children, animals, scat, vomit, prostitution, permanent marks, serious injury, dishonesty, death, or blatant stupidity - HARD LIMIT. Other than that, I am open-minded and love to experiment and try new things.
I do not enjoy online domination, and I require a vanilla meet before anything else. I will not share pictures without getting to know you better. I have no interest in giving "tribute", but my respect is yours - if you deserve it.
I am only seeking LOCAL partners. If there is no information in your profile, enlighten me. If there is no picture on your profile, attach one.
Please be polite, do not make assumptions, and use the word 'platypus' somewhere in your first message so I know you've made the effort to read my profile. I will return this courtesy before replying.
Looking forward to hearing from you!
- M
**This profile (including excerpts, photos, journal entries, and forum posts) may NOT be used in any studies or reproduced in any way without express permission from myself**
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Goodness gracious, great balls of fire!
She's sweet and sexy, dorky and fun, thoughtful and bright, has a strong sense of what's right and the ovotestes to back it up. She lives close. She's easy to talk to. She's really cute and makes me smile. She understands that I'm busy. The way she dances is intoxicating, and her kiss...
I could build a blanket fort with her and snuggle the winter away.
Fingers crossed :) |
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I met RadhaKrishna (lovely sexy couple) downtown this weekend for the Victorian Fetish Ball and had a fantastic time! I very much enjoyed my first large public event, looking forward to more... |
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Apparently my last journal update didn't post...oops!
New York was fantastic. I'm definitely looking forward to traveling more soon. Next trip: somewhere with a beach. |
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Will be in NYC this weekend... |
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I feel like I've been working so much it's all I do anymore!
I had a casual play session maybe a week ago, lots of spanking and good sex but nothing in particular that stood out - well, except the welts on my ass.
Tonight I have a playdate (equally as much 'date' as 'play) with a good friend. It's a bit of a drive but definitely worth it. He is funny, clever, cute, tall, hung, subtly but strongly dominant and intensely sensual. I'm looking forward to being wined and dined and teased until I beg for him. He may be exactly what I've been looking for..... |
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Small talk is not my forte. Unless you're at a party and don't know anyone, it serves no appreciable purpose...so please, no back-and-forth messages about how my day was. The sooner you get to the point, the more interested I'm likely to be. |
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I love random bootycall messages from people I've never met as much as I love starting my day being hollered at by construction workers...which is to say, I don't. I'm not likely to respond to either. It's mildly flattering, but not as much as you might think. |
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Looking forward to Pride - especially since I have a very cute petite brunette to go with... :) |
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Heading to StarFest today! :) |
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I love not dating right now.
I am happily indulging in books, movies, writing, drawing, and single-serve amateur-gourmet meals. I'd forgotten how much I love to be alone. After a couple rough months, the time to myself is much appreciated.
I also love that it's baseball season again! |
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It's incredibly considerate of these people to provoke me when I've had a bad day. Replying to messages can be wonderfully cathartic... Enjoy.
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If I've piqued your interest, why not just say so? :) I do get quite a few messages when I'm online, so I would imagine you have the luxury of a bit more time to construct an introduction than I do...
-M
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M,
You did pique my interest which is why I contacted you. I'm a very busy man and why should I have anymore time than you do? Either you're on CM to meet a D or you just want to play games, I'm not and I don't care to cyber chat forever either! If you're serious and want to have a face to face in the near future then let's proceeed. Maybe you feel your in such hi demand that you can dictate what goes on but if that's so then you should be a Dom not a sub!!!
If your still interested and would like to start fresh, send me another more respectful message or don't try and waste anymore of my time.
Respectfully,
J
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J,
Respectfully, there are an inordinate amount of 'dominant' men with profiles on CM all seeking a subby girl to use, so by the basic principle of supply and demand, submissive women ARE more in demand and DO have the ability to pick and choose. I am also younger than most, attractive, in good shape, self-sufficient, and articulate. I am by no means perfect, but I have no illusions about these qualities and they happen to be sought after.
Self-confidence does not dictate a sexual or kinky orientation. If you had bothered to read my profile, you would know that I am a switch and have labeled myself 'submissive' because I am only seeking a dominant partner. I do have a definite dominant side, but this is simply expressing my irritation. Knowing what I want does not make me a Domme by default. If you can't handle mere annoyance, I'd suggest you delete this message now and not bother to read the rest.
If you had read my profile, you would also know that you are over my preferred age range and that poor spelling and grammar are serious pet peeves of mine. I certainly have a choice in what kind of partner I want, whether I am Domme or sub or switch. I do have serious hopes of meeting a partner, through this site or socially, but I fail to see how you fit into that category. This is a personal failure that I'm quite comfortable with.
There's a recurring theme here - read the profiles. They're a useful tool for discovering what people like and want, in their own words. If they don't seem compatible, move on. Presumably you're a grown man. You certainly shouldn't need someone to explain this to you, but since you've now wasted both our time, maybe the concept will be a bit easier to grasp. Remember, I wasn't interested in the first place - you sent the first message, and had the lack of manners to throw a tantrum when I didn't recognize it as a golden opportunity to serve [user name], domliness incarnate.
This message is harsher than I usually send, but I had a very bad day and you pissed me off. Frankly, you're an easy target. I do feel better now though. If you feel the need for a parting shot, you are absolutely welcome to do so - and don't be offended when I reply with very small easy-to-understand words that you have been blocked.
Good luck (honestly),
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By popular request, these are the attributes I look for in a partner. Please note that I am rather detail-oriented and these are ideals, not requirements. There's a bit more information about me as well...
I prefer older partners, between 22 and 40, and taller than me. There are possible exceptions, but only if you're very charming and obviously take care of yourself. I'm picky, and expect the same from a partner. If you'll settle for any living breathing sexually developed female, please move on.
I am most attracted to classic, timeless aesthetics and those who wear them well. Confidence is a turn-on, but a modern Narcissus will be abandoned in front of the next shiny reflective object available. I dress well but not particularly trendy. I don't care what your 'style' is. I like tattoos and piercings, but have none and no real intention of getting any. I am very bisexual and love both genders and those in between, but with very few exceptions I am not interested in joining a couple.
I prefer fit, relatively clean-cut-looking men with masculine features and somewhat fuller lips. I tend to be attracted to rugged or metrosexual men. Definite bonus points if you can pick me up easily. I also appreciate larger, ahem, endowments, but I really don't need a picture.
I like femme or androgynous women, slim/petite (like me) to curvy. I love round asses, smaller perky breasts, and full lips. I will compliment you, so please be able to accept it gracefully. I have a definite weakness for redheads and petite Middle Eastern women.
Please be single or in an open, honest relationship. I don't mind if you have kids, or pets, or roommates. I like nerds and tend to gravitate towards engineer types. Intelligence and confidence are seriously fucking sexy. I get along best with fellow pervs ;) and I don't like close-mindedness, intense jealousy, a need for drama, or a self-centered attitude. I am relatively laid-back and grounded, independent, and have my shit together. I appreciate those same qualities.
My profile picture is, indeed, me, but I'm usually a bit camera-shy. I am a nerd. I am comfortable with this. I read constantly, love good scifi, fence occasionally, perform spoken word, still have my Magic deck, invoke witty wordplay wherever possible and adore alliteration. I am soft-spoken and can be quiet. I sometimes need space to be alone, and I am not needy or clingy though I may occasionally need reassurance. I am more expressive physically than emotionally. I am generally upbeat and happy with life, but I have a darker sarcastic and mildly inappropriate sense of humor. I find horror movies funny. I talk during movies. I like good food - cooking and eating - and taking care of and spoiling my partner a bit. I like going out but I don't party often. I have a network of close, honest friends - mostly poets, biology students and comic book artists, ranging from their teens to their fifties. I take offense at being patronized. I'm not especially close to my family but I'm here for them. I love sex - talking about it, thinking about it, anticipating it, and having it. I like cuddling. I make reeeeeeeeally bad jokes.
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A certain very charming individual has sent me three messages in five days. None have shown any incentive for me to respond, and they all looked like copy-paste correspondance.
I just let him know that he is (being over my preferred age limit and in Jersey City, whereas I am in Denver) not quite what I'm looking for and that I do appreciate messages that don't require the use of 'ctrl+c' or 'ctrl+v'.
His response?
"I dont do copy and pasted BITCH"
Did I mention the staggering charisma this man exudes, even through a computer screen?
My response:
"Wow. So defensive. That'll help."
...to which he replied,
"Your just a want-2-be tease internet slut"
Once again, I am in awe at his grasp of the English language. I feel obligated to point out that if I were an online tease, I might be a bit more receptive to his advances. I also don't have the patience for grown-ass men who choose to act like inbred primates.
All message content posted is complete and verbatim. The user's name is not mentioned so as to not violate TOS. However, it doesn't really matter - even his personality seems to be a simple copy-paste from countless other 'Dom's I've had the misfortune to communicate with.
Sometimes I wish there were a 'ctrl+z' command for people...
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Edited to add: I got a message asking that I not compare this guy to teenage boys, as it's insulting to the latter. The request was friendly and articulate and made me laugh. Therefore, I have substituted 'inbred primates'. This is not to say that the two are interchangeable, and no offense to inbred primates, either - they need love too. If my comparison of douchy Doms to inbred primates is interpreted as crass or crude, feel free to insert the multicellular organism of your choice. |
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I have changed my orientation from 'switch' to 'submissive', simply because I am not interested in Domming anyone at this time. |
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I am very recently out of a two year relationship with a sexual D/s dynamic.
The end was mutual and we will continue to see each other socially. While I am not actively seeking anything, I am more than willing to entertain the advances of particularly enthralling individuals.
Ideally, I would like to meet an articulate, intelligent, sexy, and very dominant man or woman in Denver...
Feel free to send me a message and ask any questions, I'm pretty open :) |
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I seem to be getting more submissive and service-oriented lately, and I miss cooking as often as I used to. The other night I had a few friends over for dinner just so I could play with food - curried pumpkin soup, cherry balsamic glazed chicken, salad and bread - yum. Last night B was in a piss-poor mood from work so I brought him a glass of wine, a pair of sweats, and a snack while I made dinner.
He's experimenting with vegetarianism and I'd been craving a couple things, so: farfalle with italian sausage substitute, fresh rosemary, perfectly ripe grape tomatoes, onion, garlic, cracked pepper, and a touch of sea salt tossed with parmesan and olive oil. I made a caesar salad as well, and while we ate, the homemade tiramisu was chilling in the fridge.
I served dinner to coincide with the end of his online poker game, refilled his glass and put on a light comedy, then served dessert (not the most amazing tiramisu, but it was my first time making it - and he told me what it needed to be better next time). He fondled me in the kitchen while I was cooking, noticed his favorite foods in every course, teased that I'm trying to make him gain weight, and smiled before saying "I didn't ask you to do any of this, but it's exactly what I needed." I like taking care of people, and making him feel better and a little spoiled made me feel good. The acknowledgement almost made me glow. The last of the dishes are drying this morning and I'm still smiling.
I've noticed that taking care of people is a personal trend on either side of the kneel. I like pampering B in the ways I know how - cleaning and doing laundry, cooking, leaving dorky little notes or quickly drawn single-panel cartoons and coming up with quick responses in conversation to make him laugh. When I am submitted to, I like making sure my sub stays happy by keeping busy and making me happy - or being uncomfortable in the best way possible. I love rewarding good behavior. I don't especially like giving punishment, but if it's purely for sensation I very much enjoy topping. This works well since our friend J is submissive and a bit masochistic, but not service-oriented at all. I'm glad actually, haha, she's not good with cleaning so I would have to micromanage or redo it all myself later since I'm kinda particular...but we're both more than happy when I tie her up and tease her. We both get what we need out of it.
My needs are pretty well balanced at the moment. I just wish I had more play time with submissive women. J is very busy, and I've been wanting to give a woman's body some attention - not to mention try out my new strap-on... |
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In one of our random nerdy conversations, B has named my ovaries after quarks: one is 'charmed', and the other 'strange'. I like this.
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Another chat request denied, another accusation of denying my gender.
Is my low tolerance for bullshit really taken as an indication of more testosterone? Really?
B can't sleep so I just showed him the conversation - if you could call four sparsely worded exchanges a 'conversation'. I have just been grabbed deliciously inappropriately.
His verdict: "Definitely fake. Yup. This thing's too good to be real."
We are amused. Thanks for the giggles!
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I had a conversation tonight at a gay bar about this: I simply do not understand why bi women get such a bad rep. I know some women succeed in getting sex outside of their relationship without the knowledge or consent of their partner(s) - and in a scenario where this is the intent of the cheating partner I could see this as the ultimate cuckold - but the stigma should be applied to serial infidelity, not bisexuality! Attraction to both genders isn't a guarantee of infidelity, just like being a switch doesn't necessarily mean that person can't subdue one side of that orientation for the benefit of the current partner. Choosing one person (or two, or a select few - even confirmed sluts aren't indiscriminate ;) over the masses of available and willing potential partners is both a compromise and somewhat of a sacrifice - but doesn't a successful relationship require a bit of that anyway?
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Spent time with J last night, then B. I'm still stunned at how casual and comfortable we all are with each other, and the minimum of jealousy. I love it :)
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J (the friend B and I were playing with) showed up on my doorstep the night before last. Usually I'm not too fond of surprises, but yay!!
We went out for dinner and a bottle of wine to catch up. She came back to B's to sleep and I got to be in the middle, with his arms around me and mine wrapped around her. The three of us spent all day yesterday and last night in the mountains on an impromptu vacation and had an amazing lunch on the way back to the city. Now she's stretched out on the couch with a book while I'm catching up on some work and checking CM.
It's incredibly difficult to take my eyes off the long undulating curves along her body, from her profile and long hair down to her neck to spine and hips and an enticing line of pale calf - which I just kissed - to her bright green toenails.
Sorry to wax loquacious but I'm glad she's back :) I'm surprised at the intensity of this feeling, but I missed her.
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(see post 8/04 first)
She's coming back! :)
Unfortunately her situation after she left was less than ideal, and she does intend to move to a coast or overseas when she has her feet under her, but she will be moving back to Denver for at least a few months.
On another note, I'm looking forward to a shibari fetish photo shoot soon. Should be fun...
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I want to be part of the solution.
No, really, I do.
I just don't happen to see a problem that needs fixing...
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We found a beautiful sexy intelligent fun interested woman we are both attracted to (actually someone I've known for years) and got to play last night. So much fun, I've been missing the female form and I LOVE group sex. Everyone is still smiling.
Unfortunately, she's moving out of the country in a week :( I'm a little disappointed that our friendship evolved to include a sexual aspect just before this major change in her situation, but it will be good for her and I'm already planning to visit.
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I am less and less satisfied with this site lately, so I haven't been online much. However, there is a change in my status: B and I are entertaining the idea of welcoming another into our lives. My profile will be altered to reflect this :)
This is mostly my request; since becoming monogamous I miss women very much, and he has no objection to a relationship with another woman if he is involved as well. I know finding someone socially and sexually compatible with both of us will be a unique adventure. Initial contact will be through me so if interested, please send me a message.
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B describing the bar scene at 1:30 am: "...the desperate seeking the barely acceptable."
I thought it was incredibly clever and observant, and it has a certain lyricism that catches my attention.
We also agreed that it's a bit insulting to be asked out or hit on by unattractive people. Most couples are of comparable aesthetics, so my confidence in my physical appearance is knocked down a notch when an overweight and undersocialized acquaintance decides to try to kiss me. B feels the same way when most women (he's rather picky) try to flirt with him at bars. This is not meant to come across as egotistical (though it is a bit shallow), but I suppose I agree with the dating caste system that our society has groomed us for - that is, most couples are of comparable aesthetics.
I explained to this friend that I am not attracted to him, and that B and I are 'exclusive'.
Our foray into monogamy is going well so far. I miss toying with the female form, but I'm surprisingly comfortable with how things are going and without feelings of stagnation or resentment on my part. I do find myself more submissive lately, and I can't wait to see where it leads.
Speaking of the female form, I'm looking forward to posing for a life drawing class at a local art college soon.
I'll be busy this summer, but I like it that way - especially since my insomnia tends to be particularly eager to give me all this extra time during the warmer months.
Hell, last night I even painted my nails. I don't do that. They're bright pink because...well...why not?
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I've always liked walking around naked, and this has evolved into a mild form of exhibitionism.
Mostly, though, I just like being naked :)
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B and I have found a happy solution to our issues :)
Thank you to all who helped on the forums!
Also, I've updated my profile. According to the DMV I am 5'4" rather than 5'5", so this information has been changed appropriately.
I've also lost quite a bit of weight recently due to an illness (some sadistic flu thing that wouldn't let me out of bed for a week last month) so this information has also been adjusted to be accurate. I am trying to get back to a healthy weight, which may take a while with my freaky metabolism, but any advice is welcome :) especially if there's chocolate involved...
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B and I have been having some issues regarding polyamory lately - he wants us to stop seeing other people and be solely committed to each other, and I want things to continue exactly as they are. I'm not sure how this will resolve, but we're being honest and uncensored about how we feel (as we are all the time, actually) and I'm hoping for the best. He's out of town for a couple days, and the time to think uninterrupted is welcome.
Other than that, things are good - negotiated a raise, moving into a new apartment, lots of time for writing, lots of cooking lately (since it's cold and grey, tonight I've decided on orichette pasta with sausage, tomato and fresh rosemary in a creamy cheesy sauce, with a salad and a glass of wine - yum) and I'm not much for parties but there are a couple I'm looking forward to attending. One is another costume party, and considering the situation with B I'm wondering if I'll be able to partake in the dungeon and other festivities or just watch...but either way, I know I'll have a good time.
I'm not enjoying the cold but I am enjoying the time spent with a blanket and a good book, just re-read Stranger in a Strange Land...speaking of poly...and I'm definitely looking forward to spring. I have a closet full of dresses and skirts to wear (hate shorts) and new-to-me bicycle that I can't wait to work on.
Come on spring and summer!
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Westboro Baptist Church (affectionately known as the 'god hates fags' church) will be in Denver-Cap Hill TOMORROW protesting against, well, everything that pisses them off, which happens to include a lot that I love.
WBC will be at 1177 Grant and 1120 Lincoln (Intermountain Jewish News) from 9-9:30, then at the Jewish mosaic (1046 Lafayette, which promotes gender and sexual diversity) from 9:45-10:15.
Just as they're taking full advantage of first amendment rights, so am I - and organizing a small protest rally, everyone's welcome!
We will be right there supporting sexual freedom, informed choice, diversity, and everything else these noisy bastards disagree with. Bring big colorful signs and lots of love. It's only an hour, why not?
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Tonight I went out with a woman I met at the play party I attended recently. She was going to bring me flowers, reconsidered, and presented me with a pair of antique handcuffs instead. Awwwwwww.... :)
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I have added an audio greeting to my profile, simply a basic introduction and the fact that I am not seeking since this is overlooked quite often...constructive comments are welcome :)
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I went to a costume party on Saturday, lots of dancing and food and conversation and a poetry open mic (which I enjoy) and good clean family fun until around midnight, at which point clothing was optional and us kinky folk excused ourselves to the dungeon...
It was my first experience with public play beyond group sex. I watched the fun for quite a while, getting all hot and twitchy watching the beatings continue while morale improved ;) then I bottomed for a lovely female switch - a very cute redhead, strong arms and gorgeous muscle control and very aware of what she likes. She is primarily submissive but she has been practicing with floggers.
Stripped to the waist, I bent over and braced my hands against the wall while she covered my upper body with strokes until my back was a very pretty red accented with welts and my skin burned beautifully. I haven't been on the business end of an impact toy for far too long, it felt soooooo good! I got a couple laughs for my occasional outburst of 'Oh my god!'
After I stopped shuddering and smiling of course ;) I returned the favor with a paddle on her ass and back, not as robustly as I would have liked (she didn't want the flogger, and I don't have the same power with a paddle as I did when I was waiting tables) but enough for her to get a rosy glow and that wonderful endorphin rush.
I socialized for a few more hours before cuddling up with a dear friend and lover. Her moans brought a couple more guests to the room and we were joined by a guy in his early twenties with a beautiful body (who has achieved fuck-buddy status because of his stamina and unselfishness, I'll be seeing him again soon I hope). The three of us were joined by another friend and his partner for the evening, then by my lover's girlfriend, and we all writhed in an orgiastic gooey heap of fun before collapsing satisfied and exhausted at about 8 am. We napped for a couple hours, joined the other overnight guests upstairs (nicknamed 'human leftovers', which I thought was clever) for coffee/juice/pastries and helped clean up a bit before heading home for the bliss of a hot shower.
I absolutely fucking adore my friends!
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Last night I threw him down - literally - and had my way with him. Today he's getting his revenge...flicked my nipples with a rubber band, went down on me for an hour but didn't let me come even when I begged and pinned me against the wall and pulled my head away by my hair when I tried to touch him - I'm forbidden to masturbate, he's keeping me wound up and on edge until this afternoon and it's driving me CRAZY......!
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A close friend and his girlfriend have introduced me to a wonderful local group of deviants :)
Between my interactions with them and my continuing relationship with B, I'm surprised and pleased to say that in these current circumstances, I can't imagine a want/need that couldn't be met.
I will keep this profile active to communicate platonically, but I am not seeking ANYTHING else. If I'm still overwhelmed with unwanted messages, I will delete my profile.
Thanks, and good luck!
- M
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Mistress Christine stated that our interactions lacked the spark, passion, intensity, need, et al that are necessary in any fulfilling D/s interaction.
Regretfully, I agree.
I am not a needy person. My submission is a way to give in to my desires and allow myself to be totally vulnerable, and it seems this cannot be done safely and totally outside of the BDSM lifestyle.
My needs to serve can be met with vanilla alternatives, such as cooking, cleaning my apartment or volunteering at the refugee center. My needs to submit mentally and sexually can be somewhat satisfied (though not as completely) by doting on my boyfriend, who is admittedly more comfortable with an equal power dynamic but is very dominant sexually. I've been very busy lately, not the least of which is a bit of family drama, and I don't think I can honestly commit myself to a Dom/me until things resolve and settle down.
I would like to explore my submissive side more at some point, but until then, I'm happy with my vanilla and Domme side ;)
I will not change my kinky orientation to 'dominant' because that doesn't encompass all of my desires, but my subby side is on hold until I find the time to dedicate to a strong, sexy, kinky Dom/me.
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I don't IM or share pics with strangers.
I am not a guy.
The two are not necessarily mutually exclusive, but in this case, they are.
I see no need to flaunt revealing images of myself to prove my gender to a random CM user halfway across the country...especially a mongoloid with a keyboard and a total disregard for grammar.
Online caution does not indicate the presence of a penis :)
Your loss. Dumbass.
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I have posted in the 'poly' section of the message boards to clarify my situation:
I would still classify it as an open relationship, but I am "some kind of poly". I do have multiple relationships, but no singular relationship involves more than two people; me and my chosen secondary partner. I am committed to my primary in the same way Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera were - not through fidelity, but emotional attachment.
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Another one!!
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To: me
From: ick trap (it's an anagram, figure it out)
You need to be my precious property. Truths as I have learned them. A woman has a natural desire to be dominated, disciplined and to serve a man. Poly women are very submissive. A collar and leash do wonders to enhance a woman's submissive nature especially when she is kneeling before me. Having swallowed her Master's cock even if gagging makes her proud. Girls love their tits sucked especially if they are full of milk. Having me tell her she is a good girl gives her joy. Being branded as a slave removes all doubt a woman has as to who she belongs to and what she is. Owner seeks an attractive property to collar,leash and brand as my devoted and obedient 24/7, LT, R/T slave girl. Patrick
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To: ick trap
From: me
Sir (and I use the term VERY loosely),
What, pray tell, makes you believe I would be interested?
You clearly have not bothered to read my profile, but allow me to educate you on certain truths as I know them:
I am not seeking anything right now. Even if I were, you have in your first message failed to show me the respect of addressing me in any way and bypassed any pleasantries, refused to show the basic courtesy of reading even halfway through my profile, and you have categorized me as a simple but pretty slut who is lost without someone to control her. I am, by no means, a damsel in distress. You are significantly over my preferred age limit, you are not local and I will not relocate. I am not, in any regard, a slave. Usually I would delete a message on the basis of this assumption, but hell, I'm feeling vengeful today. Last but not least, I am not a good girl. How incredibly boring would that be?
I have no desire to be your - or, in fact, anyone's - '24/7, LT, R/T slave girl', but you can be my bitch. Bend over, baby, here's your consolation prize...
With pleasure,
-M
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This is a message I received this evening, woefully verbatim and complete, including a typo and an obvious grammatical error (I was unable to copy and paste, so I actually had to suppress a physical reaction to force myself to purposely retype this without fixing these errors - *shudder*). I will not list the author's screenname (and I use the term 'author' VERY loosely) but suffice it to say, I am not pleased, and was much politer than I intended in my response (which is also included, verbatim and complete). My patience with the barrage of e-mails from mongoloids who have learned how to use a computer is limited, so you, good sir, are making it up to me by providing an example of a typical message on CM from the classic older, 'experienced', and clearly omniscient 'Dom' who lives halfway across the country.....bet you didn't see this coming, buddy :) but sincerely, thank you for the learning opportunity you are affording to the rare individual who DOES read my profile and journal before contacting me. It looks like I found a use for you after all.....
With no further adieu.....
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TO: me
FROM: older, experienced, omniscient dom
I read the profile, and saw the photo you have. You do look like something I may enjoy. You should read the profile I have COMPLETELY, word for word. I thin you may be very surprised to really see and read exactly what you need, and looking for in this wonderful lifestyle
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TO: older, experienced, omniscient dom
FROM: me
I have read your profile completely, though you clearly have not offered the same basic courtesy.
I am pleased to hear that I look like something you may enjoy, but unfortunately my charms are not for your benefit, and I can forsee no possible use for you.
I am fully aware of what I want and need, and I do NOT need an arrogant narcissist who calls himself a dominant male. I won't insult you by hoping you find what you deserve, but I do wish you luck in finding what you seek.
Thanks for playing, and better luck next time :)
-M
Edit: his response:
well,,,your loss. I am sure you will find a boy on here and the two of you can experiment., or better yet you can do the online thing. good luck. No need to respond, although you probably will lol
I will not send a response, but again...
I do not 'do the online thing', and I'm not looking for a hookup via CM. You clearly did not read my profile, cupcake.
I am generally a nice and pleasant person...sarcastic, but nice - unless you piss me off, which takes some effort. This message wasn't really that much worse, it's just very typical and monotony is, by nature, boring.
Don't be that guy :)
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To clarify:
Although I am in an open relationship, it does NOT mean I will accept an online invitation for casual sex. It does mean that if I happen to meet someone in person and share an attraction, I am free to be spontaneous.
This aside, I am always willing to make new friends but I do not have the time to train anyone outside of this relationship, sorry. If this changes, I will post :)
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It amazes me how well things are going right now.
I am entirely comfortable with myself and who I am, and it's made me so much happier. I've been very busy and enjoying every minute, making friends and writing stories and poetry, painting and hopefully selling some artwork soon, helping a local band with poster design and album art, being out at all hours of the night, and working my ass off at work and school.
I have an open relationship with an amazing guy, I have abandoned anything but blunt honesty, I have befriended some truly fantastic human beings, and I couldn't be happier. I am planning a road trip to the east coast this summer, partially to visit a former sub that I met on this site.
I have had amazing luck meeting kinky people in Denver and Boulder, without the aid of CM or . It makes me wonder if there's something about me that attracts (mostly) subby people, or if I just happen to be in the right place at the right time. Either way, I am definitely enjoying the company of my new friends, and I look forward to meeting more.
I am hoping to be online more frequently this summer, feel free to message me with any questions or otherwise.
Carpe omnius! - M
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Back online for a bit, yay! I've only been able to check my mail every week or two, so please don't expect an immediate response, but I will return messages when I can.
If I don't share pictures or my personal e-mail address in the first couple messages, I'm accused of being fake.
I am amused :)
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For the moment I'm not seeking. I've started seeing someone and we'll see how it goes...
I suspect he's a kink, he just doesn't know it yet ;)
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Nothing turns me off faster than someone who can't be bothered to spell correctly....
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As much fun as it is to ride public transportation brandishing a riding crop, I prefer to be a little more discreet....I can't be the only kink without a car. Does anyone know if a retractable crop is made?
Then again, it was so funny to see people pretending not to stare...! |
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Made a connection with a cm user - thanks D ;) - but after playing a couple times he's moving back home. C'est la vie, mon petit jouet de garcon soumis..... |
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I found the most amazing boots -
thigh hi black vinyl stilettos.
Now who would look good groveling at my feet to admire my new boots?
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hentaispoon.com/bond/bond355/2.html ---- which one are you?
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To all the creepy, significantly older Doms and Masters halfway across the country: I am not willing to relocate at this time, but thanks for playing!
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| Age: 53 |
| Yucca Valley,
California |
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