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SwickedSwitch

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Male Switch, 25, Lynnwood, Washington
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About SwickedSwitch

The thing, I am not even sure why I am here.

I know what brings me here - a kinky streak a mile wide. The issue - I am happily married in a vanilla relationship. I am not doing anything I shouldn't be doing - my wife has encouraged me to look into ways of scratching my kinky itch, but I really haven't got a clue if this is a viable route.

We have tried bondage play - with varying results, but her heart isn't in it, and then we both end up feeling stupid. It needs two to be in to it.

Hey, don't get me wrong, I am not moaning about this - I wasn't duped, and I am happily married...but this kinky streak keeps rearing its very ugly head, and I feel like I need to explore it.

If you want to send me a message to tell me how you disapprove, save us both the time! I am not sure why I am on here, but I do know it is not to get moralised by strangers.

At least I am being honest, unlike a lot of people on here...

If you find yourself in a similar position, stop and say hello. Oh, stop and say hello anyway! It's only online chatting...

So, to summarise : switch male, married, vague, unable to commit to anything but casual play. At best. My interests are legion - most things interest me and I am very open minded. I like the pain thing. Giving and taking.

Oh, and I am not Irish. Am from across the pond.

My work here is done. All I need to do now is sit back and be inundated with responses...some hope!

Right, having been inundated with messages (I am, after all, an overweight, rapidly approaching middle aged, married man with vague sexual proclivities), I think that I have to make it clear. If you don't have a pulse, then I am not interested.

Well, this place is a lot quieter than it used to be. I was on here a while ago, and I had received at least six messages from ladies from exotic countries telling me that I was exactly what they were looking for, but not to reply because they could only converse by email by now...

 

I feel quite affronted that no-one has tried to defraud me yet.

 

 

 

You know, I really can't be doing with any of this female supremacy stuff. Don't get me wrong, I am not suggesting a woman can't be better than a man, but the thought that a woman by definition is better than a man is ridiculous. That just sounds like a pretentious pile of old wank to me.

 

I have noticed that many Doms have ridiculous egos, but can't remember too many banging on about male supremacy. I am sure if they did, they would get shouted down as sexist pigs.

 

Am perfectly happy to submit to a woman, but I wouldn't do it because I think she is better than me - why does one party have to try and claim that right?

 

Some people take this kink stuff far too seriously.

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