sweetsmilefresno

I enjoy most forms of play, but especially enjoy receiving bare-handed spankings, clawing with fingernails, floggings and canings. I am also a sensation slut, who thoroughly loves losing myself in the ecstatic feelings of helplessness during bondage and sensory deprivation scenes.

More of a tease than a slut. I love "the chase". Flirtations, kisses, brushes, rubs, squeezes…. Just about anything you feel like giving is acceptable. I can be a little shy and am extremely selective. I take a lot of time getting to know interested Dominants.

Due to body fluid exchange concerns, I carry with me a suitcase full of my own toys, but I am open to new exciting toys I have yet to experience or acquire.

I am an active member of the local BDSM community here in Fresno. An intellectual, I am always seeking knowledge and striving for a better understanding of the physical, psychological and spiritual aspects of “doing what we do”, and especially love the social and educational aspects of the group, which over the years has allowed me to explore different viewpoints. I am always interested and open to discussion on the subject.

I live a polyamorous lifestyle with my husband, who has been my loving soulmate in excess of 20 years now. I tend to search out others interested in "longer-term friendships" because in all honesty, I would rather have one or two great and satisfying relationships than fifty casual ones.

I am not interested in out of towners. I currently work part time and am working on my Accounting degree full time at the university, plus I have a family at home. I am extremely busy here in Fresno, travel is just not on the agenda at the moment.

Everyone who comes to me with an interest needs to speak with my husband as well. He has final say over who I play with or not. If he's not comfortable with someone or something, he lets me know and I respect his wishes at all times. (Even when I don’t want to! Damn knives!!!! Why do they have to be so enticing!)