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sweetsmartfire - Female Submissive, Washington Washington D.C. | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About sweetsmartfire

I am fun, playful, sincere, sweet, sarcastic, witty, way-too-clever, a keen observer, a rabble rouser, sometimes greedy, not too needy...easy to vibe with if we have chemistry and are kind and reciprocal.

***Only looking in the close-in DC area !! No.... I am not going to travel, move or even cybersex with you (yet).***

*Please expect to share photos with me. I will reciprocate:*

  • I find it very hard to interact beyond saying hello without having a basic idea of what you look like.

  • If you can't bother to post some sort of general discreet photo or at least send me one either here or offline, I can't bother to respond.

  • I am sorry but there has to be the promise of a basic physical attraction...beyond that chemistry is by far the most important aspect.




I am attractive, truly...and need to be attracted to you as well:

  • I tend to go for the smart, well-spoken, witty, confident, self-possessed, scholar-athlete

  • I value social and professional gravitas

  • a good dresser who knows how to move his body through space with authority.

  • I like clean cut, tall dark and handsome... (that means 6' please)

  • with a measured masculine voice and demeanor, fit and relatively muscular but not a meathead-esque guy.

  • prefer men who are 32-48 yrs old, taller than 5'10"...



It's not that easy to humiliate me, or dom me in fact, i have to really want you to:

  • i am not shy or easily embarrassed nor do I blush.

  • I can be strong willed and very reserved if someone has not earned my trust and respect. I am submissive however with those whom I have an erotic, deep and trusting rapport.



I am not a bdsm lifestyler... Vanilla, sophisticated, poised and classy on the outside:

  • I am not shy at all, but am reserved and a very keen observer.

  • I value sophistication and intelligence and a sharp dry wit.

  • I don't even think I'm a "real" sub..some might say i am merely a kinkster.



I like to experience BDSM when in the moment ..drawn in, naturally compelled..not because you "made me" do it:

  • if it's a true power exchange then I would naturally cede that to you within the energy of how we are interacting.

  • Apropos of nothing, from a distance, is fake or constructed ..for example I don't particularly like role play, it doesn't feel authentic to me..I would roll my eyes if it were out of the blue.

  • I tend not to like protocol..or official rules...like saying please sir thank you sir, or using any capitalized pronoun to address you.

  • If you earn my respect and admiration and we connect I would very easily want you to do anything and everything anyway ...




That said, I can be very uninhibited:

  • if the vibe is right. I can love nothing..or everything..and that comes with true chemistry, trust and the experience of time together.

  • I tend not to like protocol..or official rules...like saying please sir thank you sir, or using any capitalized pronoun to address you. If you earn it and we connect I would very easily want you to do anything and everything anyway ...



Lastly, please don't presume I am like this all the time with just anyone...it takes time, trust and true compatibility. I am not down-to-fuck at the drop of a hat...
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