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BigE9475
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Greetings and hello.
I am a 41 yr old female, from Ohio, I am in a relationship. Actually, I am in what could be classified as a Poly lifestyle. My husband is 44 yrs old, 6'6" tall, and weighs 225lbs, He is a straight, Dominant gorean Man. Now as I said I am in a Poly lifestyle, that means that I have another person in my life, a second husband of sorts. He is also a dominant.
Information about my husband can be found here MasterEric68. Information about my second husband, although he has a membership I do not give out his name here unless he tells me to do so. He is younger than me, but that does not make him submissive in anyway. He is completely dominant and there is no man other than my husband that has ever been able to bring out the true submissive in me, until he came along.
They are the only two people I am submissive to. So yes I am a switch because I am submissive to them, but I am only submissive to them. I am not seeking a Dom/Domme hence I did not list it in my actively seeking list. This is not put on here as a challenge to all you Dom/Domme's that think "Oh but I could dom you" No you really can't and sending me e-mails with messages saying such is a waist of your time and mine. So if you think you can message me and be my friend and talk about the lifestyle with out instantly wanting to dom me or things of that nature, Just be two people who have a common interest in the lifestyle having conversation. Then by all means I welcome your messages.
I am actively seeking sub/slave men, sub/slave women, or sub/sub couples. Now to start off with I am seeking friendship. I am not here to make booty calls there are sites on line for that. I am not seeking an instant hook up, a Domme/sub or Domme/slave relationship has to have a level of trust. I have to trust you and you have to trust me. That level of trust is not going to happen over night. But if I as a Dom am willing to my time and effort into getting to know you and building that relationship. Then shouldn't you as a slave/submissive also be willing to put forth your time and effort to gain that which you seek. One major sticking point with me, an unbreakable rule and a HARD limit is total honesty. I will not lie to you and I will not accept being lied to by you. Also for those sub/slave males out there who have wives or girlfriends who are not into the lifestyle. I am not here to be the other woman in your life. I am not here to help you cheat on your partner. so If your partner does not know your on here, and does not know your seeking a Domme, then you need to look elsewhere because I'm not the Dom for you. As I said honest is always number one on my list and lying to your partner about me is the same as lying to me. There for move along and look for one who will accept that decption in their lives.
Now, I prefer my sub/slave males to be bisexual. Now if it comes to a level of us meeting or anything of that nature you will never have to worry about being used by my husband as he is completely straight and does not intend to change that, but my second husband is bi and may become involved in our play from time to time as he chooses. With female sub/slaves it goes with out saying I am looking for bi, otherwise why would have it on my list. couples I prefer both partners to be bi. This is how I prefer BUT does not mean I will not speak with our get to know subs/slaves that are straight and who knows it might work out. Or at least you might gain a friend.
I have had both male and female slaves, both good and bad, I do not make generalizations that one sex is better than another. I find there are many ways to tease and torment the female body, there are many ways to make the female body squirm, but there are also many ways to tease, and torment the male body. I believe that one has to give pleasure, but pleasure can come in many forms for different people, so I am exsperimental and always looking for new things to try.
I have many interests, and a Dark side I wish to exsplore, though that takes developing a certain level of trust.
As a Domme, I demand total surrender, I wish a boy or girl that will serve Me completely, sexually or otherwise. but always remembering that My husband is the Head of My home and life, and even I answer to Him.
I am a fun loving woman and am willing to try almost anything once, if I like it I'll try it twice, three, heck four ...okay lots more times.
I am very non judgemental, I believe that You don't have to be a run way model to be beautiful. If you pick a person souly upon their looks, size, age, race, religion, please move on.
I am a Wiccan. I don't go to church, I do not read the bible, I do not believe in just one God, I believe there are many Gods and Godess. If this bothers You please do not message Me.
I am gorean, I have read and own all of John Norman's books of gor. I find them to be a lifestyle I love.
I have very few limits. I do not do scat; Roman showers ((ICKKKKKK)) and I am not into pedophelia. Those are lines I will NOT cross. However I do enjoy pushing the limits of those submissive to Me,, with the exceptions of these things listed.
I like to Role play, I do Gor, Midevil, BDSM, SOD, Free Form Vamp.
Outside the bedroom. I like to have fun spending time with My family, roleplaying, singing, dancing, watching a good movie, games (as in cards or board games) walks on the beach, hiking, and just good old fashion fun.
In the bedroom I have the limits I listed here. Beyond that, Message Me and ask.
If any of this sounds interesting to you, as a slave/submissive. Whether your looking for a Dom/Domme Couple, a Domme, or just friendship, message Me and we will talk.
You can message me here or on . I am RedPhoenix71 there.
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today I was chatting on here with a male who is new to submission, ahhh the joys of innocence, and I found Myself smiling. an intellegent conversation that didn't turn immediately to sex, with a man who seems to this point to be honest and know his own mind.
I found the conversation humerous, intellegent and stimulating on a purely non sexual level. it was like the fates were saying. See there are real and honest people on here after all. |
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I haven't been on collar Me for awhile now. I thought I had no reason to be any longer. I was wrong, so here I am again.
Now here is what I don't want. I don't want a man who pretends to be dominant when around Me, then seeks to be submissive to another. I don't want a man or woman who views Me as the one that will do till the next bigger better deal comes along.
I am tired of being used and tired of being lied to. No longer in the mood for games.
I am here for friends, and More if it comes to it. but if your seeking to submit to me, then honesty better be a big part of your life, because I've been lied to enough |
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Well I have been on Collar Me for a little over a Month now, and I have met some very nice, intellegent, sexy and interesting people both submissive and non submissive. Male and Female.
For those Straight Dom Men that have messages offering to teach Me to be a good live in sub. I am perfectly happy with My life the way it is, but I am sure if you keep looking you will find that fem sub for You, there are plenty of good ones on here. Thank you anyway. |
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Hello, I have been on collarme for about a week now, and I have met some nice people, respectful people, and people that have been and are most interesting to speak with. BUT then there have been those..two so far, that seem to have to message just to say insulting things about My weight, both as its written and as I look in the picture. I never claimed to be Miss America, but I do not understand people that judge a person simply by their outter appearance, and to those people that do, I feel sorry for you, and hope that one day you grow up, before you wind up as lonely and alone as you deserve |
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Greetings, I know its hard to get to know a person from these little boxes, I am new here and still waiting for My pic to be approved. But if anyone would like to see the face behind the name. drop me a line and I will send you the link to my myspace
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