Happy New Year! May 2014 bring the best out in all of us.

A Nighttime Fantasy
by me

You undress me slowly and press me down on the bed onto my back. You tie my hands to the bedpost and my feet to the base of the bed so that I am laying spread eagle naked in front of you. My nipples harden in excitement. You stand next to me and allow me to watch you undress, but then you blindfold me so that I can 't see. I hear you walk slowly around the room, lighting candles and getting things together to torment me with.

You run your hands over my body...softly stroking me everywhere, but being blindfolded I don't know what you are going to touch next or where. You stop at my nipples and fondle and kiss and lick them for a while, then I feel something soft and feathery run over my skin, touching my tickle spots and making me laugh. I hear the soft whirl of a massager as you begin to run it lightly over my body... stopping briefly at my nipples and continuing down to the moist V between my legs. I start to get wet with anticipation and desire for you...but you stop before letting me come.

Your hands fondle me and I think I hear you stroking your cock and I get even wetter thinking about you looking at me and touching yourself. I hear you moan while you fondle my breasts and I feel like the room is getting warmer as your hand makes its way between my legs. I hear the toy bag being pulled out from under the bed and you shuffling around looking for something ...and then I feel it...You have lubed up my dildo and begin to run it up and down my wet slit. I can't hold back the moans...your touch and attention is making me o hot. You speak for the first time...telling me to open my legs wider for you. I spread them and already they start to tremble. The dildo enters my wet pussy...slowly at first ...making sure I am ready. Then seeing how swollen and wet my pussy lips are, you slide it into me up to the hilt. I cry out in passion to you... oh yeah, oh yeah! You press it in and out of me and I see you in my mind watching me and jerking off with your other hand as you fuck me deep with that big monster of a dildo. After just a few minutes of deep thrusting I come for you, moaning and crying out your name. I feel you slide the dildo out of me and then it is on my lips...and you tell me to kiss it

I feel your weight shift the bed as you come to straddle my face. You touch the head of your cock to my lips. I hungrily and greedily open my mouth as you slid your glorious  cock between my lips. and start fucking my face. You pull your cock out and I moan at its loss. But you lower your balls down to my mouth and I lick, nipple and suck them into my mouth. Oh, the glory of it all. Then you move shuffling down til you are straddling my waist.

You kiss me deep and long with great passion and I begin to get excited again. I hear you leave the room and I get impatient for you...calling out to you. You return briefly and shock my senses by running an ice cube over my nipples. I cry out... ...Ahhhhhhhhh...and laugh softly at you being so naughty. You continue the ice cube torture for a moment, but then I feel your weight on the bed. Your hands cover my breasts to warm them up and then I feel your mouth on my pussy. You lick me and suck me like only you can...making me crazy with desire for you. I feel your cock pressed to my leg getting harder and harder the more I verbalize my desire for you... I start pleading with you to fuck me. I need it so bad and know you can give it to me sooo good, that I can barely stand it.

You finally comply and I feel your weight shift on the bed...your hands roam over me and then I feel your cock at the lips to my pussy. You rubit up and down and my face and body get hot with desire. Then I feel it...your hard cock slide into me...I yell at you in passion! Master! Yes yes yes! Your cock fucks me long and hard and deep. You alternate the strokes from fast to slow to fast again...from shallow to deep and I feel my orgasm approaching. My body tenses in anticipation and I pull against the ropes wanting to wrap my naked body around yours, but I am at your mercy for the moment...allowing you to do what you will to me. When I come, it is strong and hard. My pussy pulsing and milking your cock and I feel you explode inside me in response to the pressure and heat and passion. You yell my name and sink your damp body against mine...holding on to me and caressing me.

Slowly you untie me and we come together, two naked satisfied bodies. And wrapped together we gently stroke each other until we drift off to sleep.

This is an article that I read on another site. "***life" ( Urgh it won't let me give credit to the other site! It rang so true to me that I felt the need to re-post it here. 

I have heard and read many debates about what it means to be submissive. Are they a slave, a bottom, or a submissive and what does all that mean. I rarely hear a discussion about what it means to be Dominant. Every once in a while I read a rant by a pissed off submissive but we never seem to get down to the meat of what a Dominant should or should not be. Dominants have been getting a free ride…but not today.

I think there are many people that have allowed the term/title Dominant to go to there heads. Being Dominant does not mean that you are Dominant over all submissives. I am in no way speaking of what goes on between a Dominant and his or her sub because those are people that have some sort of understanding as to how they should treat each other. I am referring to the joker who expects submissives that they don't even know to call them Sir/Maam or capitalize when referring to "Them" in chat rooms simply because they call "Themselves" Dom/Domme. These are the same clowns that figure they can use abusive language when they speak or write to anyone that refers to themselves as a submissive. For these folks I have some news:

Calling yourself Dominant is not a license to be an asshole.

One of the few things most right thinking BDSM and D/s participants can agree on is the concept of consent. You have to have consent even to have a non-consensual relationship. Just as you require consent to hit someone with your flogger, so too do you need consent to be verbally abusive or abusive in writing. A “submissive” has the same rights and privileges as any one else until they have agreed to submit to a particular Dominant and then, their submission agreement applies only to that D’s couple, not Master/Mistress Rude in the chat room or blog comments. Where I come from picking on someone just because you can doesn’t make you Dominant, it just makes you an asshole.

I have no interest in authoring a prescription for Dominance. While I believe in certain guidelines which I have described in great detail and posted for all of Alt and to see,* we are talking about consenting adults and as long as there is in fact true consent without coercion, how people conduct themselves is their own business. However, there are those who have devised a way to be Dominant, sadistic, or perverted and have come to believe that this is “the true way.” They then decide that this higher understanding gives them the right to attack other people who don’t, can’t, or won’t live up to their sensibility. These same sorts generally single out those whom they deem easy targets to beat up on in an effort make them feel better about themselves, for their own aggrandizement. Whether it was Hitler versus Poland or Johnny Bumphus from around the way in the Bronx who use to beat up all the kids who were smaller than he was until that little fat kid with undiagnosed asthma and a will of iron whooped his little punk ass one day, (three guesses who that was) these types are all the same. They can call themselves sadists, perverts or “old School” Dominants, I call them the same thing I use to call Johnny Bumphus, A bully.

When it comes right down to it what makes someone Dominant? You could argue that Dominance is a personality trait or a state of being. Well that’s all really nice but in the BDSM world, at the end of the day the harsh truth is that you are a Dominant when someone consents to submit to you. Hence all this talk by the abusive “Dominants” about submissives being useless is a lot of horse pucky. Yes, that’s right, I said horse pucky. It is submission which enables the Dominant to be what they are. Without the submissive’s power to add to their own, a Dom/Domme is just a guy/gal with an attitude!!! So show some respect.

And finally, what is the most desirable quality in a Dominant? If I had to be vulnerable to any human, in any way shape or form, I would hope that person was honorable. Being and or making ones self vulnerability is a part of the very core of submission. If a Dominant does not keep their agreements, respect the agreements of other Dominants with submissives, and execute their responsibility for their submissives safety, well being, training and pleasure to the best of their abilities, that is not a Dominant, that’s an asshole with a whip.

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What kind of baby girl are you?

Your Result:

You are Daddy's little Princess!!!!!

Your daddy adores you and spoils you rotten, because you melt him everytime you walk (or crawl) :) into the room!

84% Princess

66% Angel

34% Schoolgirl

16% Brat

0% Pumpkin

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You Scored as Experimental

Submissive  86%

Experimental  86%

Degradation  57%

Bondage  54%

Switch  43%

Masochist  29%

Vanilla  25%

Exhibitionist / Voyeur  21%

Sadist  18%

Dominant  11%