After years of trial and error along with time to experiment, I've finally (hopefully) realized what type of relationship and man I want. What I think is best for me.

But first a little bit about me.

I'm not your typical submissive. I'm not property or anyone's fuck toy. In my "vanilla" life, I am very assertive. My work requires me to be very detail oriented, bossy and in control. I'm even starting a small woman owned business. With that said, it'll be nice to be able to come home and relinquish that control. Sometimes it's hard to transfer that power but when it happens, it's an amazing feeling.

The type of guy I want is definitely an alpha male. I like my men like my bread (white, Irish, or Italian and definitely not stale) :) Taller than me is obvious since I'm only 5'2" and definitely can't smoke, have kids, have been married, or any of that baggage.

I want someone I can be in a long-term relationship with. Someone who I can end up marrying he'll need to be close to my age and local. Pretty much want a normal relationship with d/s undertones (and in the bedroom).