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I am a pretty open person. I like getting to know people and learning more about the lifestyle and the different aspects of it.

When I think of BDSM I don't tend to think of it in any one certain way. It makes me think of a really old tree with a bunch of limbs everywhere. Each one is different.. just as each person has their own idea of BDSM and what it is or stands for or means to them. Each one of course making the tree whole.

In saying that, I think each person has their own view on BDSM and what works for them or their own idea's. Which I happen to think is great because it would be a really boring world if we all thought the exact same things or felt the same exact things. I've pretty much have always been an open person but I find that lately I have way more vanilla friends than I do kinky friends. I've also been known to blurt out the first thing that comes to mind. Sometimes it's funny to see the face on my vanilla friends (which would of course depends what I blurted out), other times, I think to myself "Great, now I get to explain what I mean." Of course sometimes they look at me like I am crazy but that's okay. So I just think I need more friends that are into kink. Which is why I am here.
Aside from my kinky interests, I enjoy horseback riding, movies, reading, writing, music and photography to name a few.
4/27/2012 6:28:24 PM

I was told that I am not as open as I thought I was. I guess in some things I am more open than in others. I have a difficult time talking about some things but other things I have no such problem. I guess some things are more easily expressed than others.

 

On a side note: I have been extremely busy, so if I have not responded to a message I will try to get to as soon as I have more time to myself. Also in case I didn't mention it before, I cannot accept chat requests. My internet connection does not allow that for some reason.  Take care and play safe.

MANDDI
 
 Age: 27
  North Carolina